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Sex - too soon?

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okay so i just got back from LA and my mom and I are packing to move into our new place on Sunday. But a friend of mine down here, asked to hang out tonight - and what he means is, lets fuck.

now this guy, hes a law student...and fucking hot one at that...but really thats all it is. Our relationship has always been call each other up to fuck there is no mental or emotional boundries here...its all physical.


and as some of you know, i broke up with my bf/really good friend of like 3 months about 5 days ago. So...I mean, I am beyond the whole "one night" stand bit - but a part of me really wants to go, but another...huge part of me doesn't.


advice?
 
That part of you that wants to get with him--it's called hormones. You've got a choice, then: take care of those hormones some other way (some "alone" time, perhaps?), or let them take care of you. Are you really over one night stands? Doesn't sound like you're sure. I'd sit this one out while you think about it a little more.
 
Yea its all about sex now.


There is no room for emotion in business or anywhere else in life.


You said he was hot so just deal with it. A friend with benefits.


Intime you may find someone looking for commitment but its unlikely, very unlikely. Even if you do, either he or you will cheat.


The only way a gay relationship can work in this day and age is if you have an open relationship like the ones the guys had in the movie, "Quinceanera" i saw the other day. Or the one from Six Feet Under. But for that to work there needs to be trust and it always has to be a 3some. No sneaking off the 3rd when you man is at work.
 
Fuck him, for heaven's sake. It is a good physical release, it's fun and it feels good too.
 
Go and have fun, what else are you going to do tonight, sit in front of the TV, why not you are siingle and horney, thats all the qualification you need. Its just fun.
 
Go fuck each other's brains out. And have a good time doing it. Leave your baggage at home. :)

And newboy is right. Commitment and relationships are for ugly old people like me. ;)

Lex
 
MrAwesome07 said:
I know of alot of people that have normal relationships... they dont have to be open! And there is no guarantee whatsoever that their will be cheating. Where are your statistics... your facts... your proof? Do you have any or are you just saying that because thats what you think? People have more honor than you think... dont get me wrong, there are those occasional assholes that cheat... but you still have those guys who want a relationship and WANT to be faithful and dont necessarily want one for sex. Like, I can easily be in a relationship and not have sex or do sexual stuff... relationships to me (and alot of gay people I know) are for emotional as much, if not more, than physical.
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The whole monogamy thing was carried over from straight relationships to gay ones. Where did these values originate? The Church, the last major institution that still stands against to homosexuality today. So why would you uphold a value set forth hundreds of years ago by an institution that believes all of us should burn in hell? Aside from that, I believe that men, gay and straight, are not meant to be monogamous by nature.

To the OP, ask yourself how you think you'd feel AFTER having sex with him. If you dont think you'll feel any guilt or regret, go for it. Like you said, its all physical. Just be safe :D
 
So, what would be wrong with having a night of awesome sex and getting your rocks off?

You are not going to marry the dude and spend the rest of your life with him. You want some and he wants some. You are compatible and you must have done it before. If it was good, go for the second round.

And forget about the crap about saving yourself, your soul and your ass for your next BF. You'll be still good enough for whomever comes up your way. Being a prissy, uptight, low sex-drive gay with a spinster attitude, on the other hand, will effectively scare away most smart dudes.

SC
 
'Intime you may find someone looking for commitment but its unlikely, very unlikely. Even if you do, either he or you will cheat.'

Kind of a fatalistic philosophy don't you think?? Not EVERYONE behaves like your suggesting!
 
Thank you for all the suggestions ya'll....but I am not going out tonight. And I don't totally agree with open relationships and the cheating deal.


Naw...this where I need to pull away from SD. Its over. Time to move on.
 
Honestly, if there is a part of you telling you no, it's there for a reason, and you need to listen to it just as much as the part that is telling you yes. It's great that everyone is telling you that you should go have sex with him, about the church blah blah blah, that is a religious battle, not an emotional battle such as what you're doing. Think about this seriously and listen to what your heart says.

If it were me, I would not do it, but that's because I'm very conservative.
 
Well... a wise mine here on the boards once told me, "Any port in the storm..."

So, I'd say, "Go for it."

That is, if you can separate sex from the act of intimacy.
 
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