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Sex you had that made you regret afterwards

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It was with my friend, we had sex one night, and afterwards we both felt so bad we couldn't face each other. It took months to make things normal again.
 
When I had oral sex with this guy in the park, after that I felt so stupid and used. I'm being more cautious when I'm wanting sex now, thats if I can actually get some now.
 
Guilt sucks. You guys should accept it for what it was. You both wanted to get off and you did. Even if the two of you don't have strong feelings for each other, there is no reason to feel bad about it. You shared something and it was nice at the time. If this comes up again, you might want let the other person know he can count on your discretion. It might make things easier.
 
I had sex with a guy I regretted...was a real asshole. The sex was OKAY at the time...but it was off and on. Could be really hot some moments, and really crappy other moments... but I started to have these real bad nightmares, about him being in a cult and trying to like, sarcifice my blood to gain power. It wasn't pretty at all, so I had to call it quits.

Our ability to think and our moral conscienceness is always greater than our 'animal instincts' which is what I think makes us human. Of course sometimes those instincts just happen anyway, but our ability to choose out of them is wonderful.

It can be the best sex ever too, and you can STILL feel guilty about it. Because, love > sex, always.

Sex sure is nice though. mmmm.
 
we were in a party with my brother and his friend!
we got drunk and i ended up having sex with my brothers friend.
it was great and the guy was talented but in the morning my brother saw us in the bed and he got crazy.he called me a slut and punched me in the eye,infront of his friend,and i started crying,i was really embarassed!

i wish i wouldnt have done it cos every time i see his friend i feel embarassed though he is a nice guy and likes me.](*,)
 
You mean, there's another kind?

I can't think of a single moment of sexual intercourse that I didn't regret at least a little bit. Sex with friends that almost ruined our friendship, sex with assholes who ravaged my frail ego, sex with boyfriends that was embarrassing in its ineptitude, sex with strangers that was simply degrading in one way or another. It's the reason I chose celibacy.
 
Yes. I have had that problem on two occasions. Both with girls. ONce in highschool. It was with a girl that I really didnt like but for some reason we fucked. I dont really remember it. But i did wake up next to her and I had some sort of memory about it. Gross. So I didnt talk to her again. And Another time was with my buddies sister. We both liked each other, and it just happened. Never spoke to her again. Wierd.
 
I've only regretted sex once and it was with my ex. At the time, I knew I shouldn't sleep with her again, but she kept insisting that she wanted to. It completely ruined our friendship for about a year and I didn't get to see my daughter very much for a little while.
 
I've tried to think of some that I have regretted but can't. Sure there was some I'm not proud of but it was fun at the time, some I shouldn't have done but it is all part of who I am and I don't live life by regrets just what I have learned through my experiences.
 
kurtwild said:
we were in a party with my brother and his friend!
we got drunk and i ended up having sex with my brothers friend.
it was great and the guy was talented but in the morning my brother saw us in the bed and he got crazy.he called me a slut and punched me in the eye,infront of his friend,and i started crying,i was really embarassed!

i wish i wouldnt have done it cos every time i see his friend i feel embarassed though he is a nice guy and likes me.](*,)
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Shame on your brother for his behavior.


I can't say that I have ever had sex that I regretted - yet.
 
Twice (that would be the only twice) in my life (with the same guy), I regretted it after because I wasn't that into him/didn't particularly care about him (but just wanted to know what the whole appeal was about).
 
I regret most of the casual hook-ups with strangers. So risky and emotionless. It has to mean something to me now. That's why it's been since February since I've been with anyone.
 
Now that you mention it, I agree with that as well. That's why it's been over three years for me.

andyspete said:
I regret most of the casual hook-ups with strangers. So risky and emotionless. It has to mean something to me now. That's why it's been since February since I've been with anyone.
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No regrets. I have only been with one man and he is my partner. We met at 18 and moved in together at 19. The rest is happy history.:D
 
Nope. No regrets.

Once you freely get involved with someone on that level of intimacy, you better forefait your right to be disappointed. You made that decision, it was your choice and once the deed is done, there is no use crying over the spilled milk.

In my books, that is.

SC
 
robertac said:
For sixthson ............... :kiss:


I too have only been with one guy and I have no regrets where he's concerned, although I do have regrets in some of the female relationships I had in my adolescence. Like the time I had sex with this girl in a cemetery, talk about stupid!
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Ain't love grand? :kiss:

Cemetery sex? Was she embalmed?[-X

:D ;)
 
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