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Hmm i'm kind of new at this, but i was wondering if somone can help me with this.

I just recently came out (april 17) and since have had sex a few times as a bottom. Well now i met a guy i really like, but he is bottom only. I decided that i wanna try topping, but i'm a bit nervous about it andi dont know why, any advice?
 
Welcome. May I ask what you mean about coming out on April 17th? Having gay sex and coming out aren't the same. Coming out is a process. First you come out to yourself, then perhaps to friends and family, and finally to the world at large.

Now, as to your sex question: have fun with this guy. Spell it all out to him. Set something up where you have a lot of time to play, safely, of course. You will have an easier time if there is no time or performance pressure.

While we may all have top or bottom preferences, the joy of being gay is that we don't have to fit into stereotypes. If he's willing, take your time and gave fun.
 
Well, there's two parts to the answer to your question.

The easy stuff- the mechanics and medical stuff can be found in a thread over in the Health & Wellbeing forum. It's here: http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=272148

But it sounds like there's more uncertainty in your question and that's the second part of the answer. What are you nervous or unsure about with topping your guy?
 
It's not about the position you guys are in, I believe both of you can still work it out and have a nice, active sex life. Figure out what each other likes (foreplay, oral, etc) and take it from there.

Two men don't always have to penetrate.
 
Welcome to JUB! :wave:

Do read the thread KB suggested, but I'd say if he's a bottom only, he knows the mechanics and his likes/dislikes pretty well. In that case, have him steer.

Lex
 
To clarify the coming out part i started in january, i was overseas and while drinking accidentily came out to a very openly gay guy i work with, friend at the time, some things happened, and thats what started me to coming out, april 17th is when i told my family. So now i'm out to everyone close to me, and never felt better.

Ya were working on learning what each other likes, i dunno why i'm so nervous, i guess i just wanna make him happy.
 
>>>i guess i just wanna make him happy.

Then say "I've never done this before, but I'm really excited to do it with you. Show me how you like it done."

Lex
 
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