Shaming of the bottom

[Peloso]

^ It totally turns me on knowing God is watching as I masturbate.

 

[Nude_Dude]

This discussion of "bottom shaming" really threw me. Who connects with this?

I've HEARD of "it" - but never been on the receiving end (please pardon the pun), personally
As I'm a 6 foot, 200 pound, rough around the edges, 'brick shithouse' kind of bloke - I'm probably never likely to
Back when I was 17 - and in my first relationship - it WAS shameful to be 'the bitch' half of a couple
So it was something you kept hidden at all costs

This year, I've made the decision to 'come out' as the bottom - in my LTR - to all and sundry who need to know, would like to know - and I think SHOULD know

My family are not QUITE ready for "the big picture" - but I'd dearly love them to know me on that level, somewhere "down the road"
I have nothing to feel shame for - and you can never be "shamed" over something you OWN

I think it's also a positive message to the "kids" out there


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[PipRosi]

I've HEARD of "it" - but never been on the receiving end (please pardon the pun), personally
As I'm a 6 foot, 200 pound, rough around the edges, 'brick shithouse' kind of bloke - I'm probably never likely to
Back when I was 17 - and in my first relationship - it WAS shameful to be 'the bitch' half of a couple
So it was something you kept hidden at all costs

This year, I've made the decision to 'come out' as the bottom - in my LTR - to all and sundry who need to know, would like to know - and I think SHOULD know

My family are not QUITE ready for "the big picture" - but I'd dearly love them to know me on that level, somewhere "down the road"
I have nothing to feel shame for - and you can never be "shamed" over something you OWN

I think it's also a positive message to the "kids" out there


.

Good on ya!
So ignorant of people. I glimpsed some of that macho and homophobic culture in this documentary about the cute closeted TV presenter in Australia who ended up one of the victims of the gay bashings.

 

[PipRosi]

^ You mean you're religious.

They don't even know it's religious shame that makes them punish the body.

 

[Nude_Dude]

Good on ya!
So ignorant of people.
I glimpsed some of that macho and homophobic culture in this documentary about the cute closeted TV presenter in Australia who ended up one of the victims of the gay bashings.

Just pleased to help, my man !
I'm sure we all remember the shakes, sweats and heart palpitation in the lead up to coming out as gay - and the feel of a great weight off our shoulders and sense of liberation and freedom we felt when it was over ?
Coming out - as a top or bottom - brings ALL OF THAT and more
I feel a better - and more of a man - FOR it, coming out as a bottom
I dream of the day every young gay dude could make both declarations in unison

I THINK the "cute closeted TV presenter in Australia" you've referenced is Robert “Tino” Carnevale from Gardening Australia

https://live-production.wcms.abc-cd...cropW=1279&xPos=0&yPos=0&width=862&height=485

If the Australian media got ONE thing right - they will never "out" a public figure against their will

 

[PipRosi]

^You seem really open about these matters. That's a good influence. Oh man, what happened to the gardening guy? No this was a while back, like 90s? This funny, popular blond news personality ? He was about to move from the city to a country home he just bought, but first went to this park known for cruising, and was murdered by these guys who were basically hunting and killing gays for months with no real investigation.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Any chance this cross-sections with guys who use womanhood as an insult? It's the go-to diss for guys on other forums.

 

[Nude_Dude]

You seem really open about these matters. That's a good influence.

Good to HEAR, my man
After 'coming out' as a bottom - Im encouraging every other bottom to do the same
I've never known such a feeling of liberation and freedom
It's hard to describe - until you go there

And you can't be 'bottom shamed' - if you OWN it

 

[PipRosi]

Any chance this cross-sections with guys who use womanhood as an insult? It's the go-to diss for guys on other forums.

Indeed. Are you a gamer perchance?

 

[PipRosi]

you can't be shamed' - if you OWN it

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Indeed. Are you a gamer perchance?

Negative ghost rider. Casual gamer, i hadn't played Mortal Kombat since like 4 releases ago, I tried playing the new one and could not keep up with whatever change they've made that allows a person to take all your health with like 3 combos. Matches used to last at least 45 seconds now I'm dead in less than 10.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

How'd I miss that gem? It's empowering to see other proud bottoms. Of course another alpha bottom is my natural enemy so I'm gonna have to Mean Girls him cuz there's only room for one boss bottom bij to rule the forums.

Alexa, how do you photoshop someone's face into that Madison Cawthorn video?

 

[PipRosi]

Negative ghost rider. Casual gamer, i hadn't played Mortal Kombat since like 4 releases ago, I tried playing the new one and could not keep up with whatever change they've made that allows a person to take all your health with like 3 combos. Matches used to last at least 45 seconds now I'm dead in less than 10.

They Live!!!!!!!

(gamers speaking gamerdegook)

Now you've sent me into a nightmare vortex dimension of minimum wage jobs listening to 19 year old coworkers. The answer to "...is that a video game reference?" is ALWAYS yes.

 

[PipRosi]

there's only room for one boss bottom bij to rule the forums.

Battle of the bottoms... does this look something like the end of Requiem for a Dream?

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Battle of the bottoms... does this look something like the end of Requiem for a Dream?

It looks exactly like that.