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Should I accept? Friend of a friend wants me!

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...or he seems to want me...

So this is the story. Please HELP!:help:

More that one year ago I was chatting with a guy on a dating site. He just had pics of the body wich was veeeery hot ...so we were planning to meet. He also gave me his cell number, but I was in doubt because he hadn't sent me any face pic. So in the end I didn't meet him.

After some time I go visiting a friend of mine on his job place, we go out having lunch together and he invites a friend of him who works very close. It happens that this guy remembers who I am, has already seen pics of me and he says to me "we chatted on *** (sitename)". He didn't want to tell me what his nick is, anyway I told him "write me on the site". He never did. But after very little time :p I realize who he is... :=D: Obviously the guy I was chatting with. ;) But I didn't tell him I did understand.

The "coffee time" happens again... he flirts a bit, pulling my leg about my nickname ("shystud... are you really a stud?") but in the same occasion expresses his "love" for big muscular guys, older than 30 (he is 35)... the same thing he wrote on his profile.

Yesterday my friend sends me an sms saying that while speaking about lots of things, *** (his friend, the guy on the site) said that he wants to have sex with me... that his fantasy is me going into his shop (which he owns), close it and have a good fuck (:sex:) right there.

I don't think my friend is pulling my leg... he joked with me about a guy I may like telling me that he and his BF (with whom he sometimes as a 3some) may tell me what they think about him... but I'm sure he was joking, I know his from long time now and he's always been caring and respectful with me (*8*)(e.g. getting to know me as a person instead of fucking me when he had the occasion to).

He assured me that this guy has not a boyfriend, even if in the profile he says he has...

So I don't know what to do.
1. Why does this guy like me? I am young, slim, not muscular...
2. Why does this guy tell his fantasy to my friend telling him to tell it to me instead of writing directly to me?
3. Why does this idea pops out NOW, when in these months he may have had the time to write to me from the site?
4. Is he really single?

MY POSSIBILITIES ARE:
A) I don't do anything. When I'll meet him again during coffee time, I'll see.
B) I write to him asking if that was true
B1) Writing on the site or
B2) Writing an sms on his cell (if it stiil active... it may not be his official
number)
C) I go directly to his shop... and risk that my friend pulled my leg

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
The solution B seems to be the best one... it would not spoil his fantasy as I may go unexpected but sure of his interest...

A possible asnwer to the question #2 (Why does this guy tell his fantasy to my friend telling him to tell it to me instead of writing directly to me?) may be that he didn't want to make me know that the guy on the profile is in fact him (thinking I hadn't undestood, because I never told him I had recognized him)

I am really in doubt. Not last, I don't like fucking with partnered people... I did in the past, I decided it was not MY problem... but if i can avoid it it's best...

PLEASE EXPRESS YOUR OPINION
:-({|=
 
I am really not the best person to give advice on anything really. Sorry.
 
Regardless of his relationship "status," I'm torn between A and C.... I would probably go for C and call your friend's bluff (also to see what the guy does/says when you're alone with him).

Good luck! :)
 
So, let's recap:
  1. You "meet" guy on a "dating" site
  2. Guy won't send you face pictures
  3. You meet guy in person but he won't fess up that he's the guy on the dating site
  4. It's uncertain whether this guy is in a relationship
  5. You're not his "type"
  6. Guy allegedly tries to setup an anonymous encounter via your mutual friend
  7. Alleged anonymous encounter is this guy's fantasy, not yours

Let's add option "D" to your list:

D. Stop wasting your time with this loser and go find a real boyfriend who:
  1. Doesn't lie
  2. Doesn't conceal his identity
  3. Has the balls to talk to you person to person
  4. Who is interested in you more than he's interested in his kinky sex fantasies
 
Option D for me too.
 
D is obviously the right answer.

But the world loves a good mystery. I'm gonna go with A.

Lex
 
Option E ispretty much anything you see in porn films. It involves saying an awful double-entendre, startin g some cheesy music, and giving him a blowjob in some semi-public spot.

I'd argue against that one, though.

Lex
 
so.. guys I made my choice.
I had published this same thread in the hot topics, and I obtained different answers... so practically basing my choice on your asnwers, and to the ones 2 friends gave me, i should choose solution A, B, C, D E and even F alltogether ;-)))

i choose to write to him on the website and see what he answers.. i asked if it is true he wants to meet me. Then i don't have to do it if i don't feel like i want to... but i may have a clearer idea of his fantasy.
 
well he aswered.
he told me he he really wants to fuck me
we agreed to meet for coffee next week :-)
 
well guys i will not ih his shop. Are you kiddin'? I already made it clear! ;-)

JUST coffee then we'll see
 
You should go for it once the two of you really like and know each other. A friend of a friend or not, find some common ground first before jumping into bed or anything.
 
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