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arieliam

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Who all is shy here? I am always amazed at how extroverted everyone thinks I am, but at the very bottom of the whole thing I am shy to the power of 10 when it comes to talking to people. Now I am not shy to do things on my own, dinner or dancing, I have no problem. But just starting up a conversation is like pulling teeth.
 
I've always been very shy. In social situations, I sometimes need a drink to help me break the ice.
 
You are definately not alone. I'm shy, but it might not seem that way. The security of this screen between you and me helps a lot. Out there, I'm completely the opposite. Just ask Elvin.
 
I'm always shy, but sometimes more sometimes less. Sometimes I even have a hard time talking on the phone (well, not hard but I ger nervous), my family jokes about this all the time "they can't see you on the other end, you don't know them, who cares" yadda ya, but still, that's just me lol
 
eddielee said:
I've always been very shy. In social situations, I sometimes need a drink to help me break the ice.
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Yes I too was once so shy that I couldn't go to bars. I didn't drink so it seemed rediculous and pointless. Now I "break the ice" every other night and am a whisky/ vodka slave. I'm a yet too recover alcaholic. Yes, I traded my sweet, cute, unaproachable shyness, for a hilariously aproachable fun fucker. Now I just have to work my ass off to find a way out of my alcaholism before it kills me. Keep the shy sweet guy. He's easier to live with even if he dosn't get out much. And sex is over rated.:-({|=](*,):grrr:[-X(*8*)
 
I'm a goofy kind of shy. I get nervous meeting new people, so I almost never make the first move to start a conversation. However, if I know at least one other person in the conversation I overcompensate for the shyness by being a total jackass (in the funny way).

Being extroverted rubs off on me, I guess. If I am really social for a little bit I find it easier and easier to go out, but if I get stuck by myself, or with just a few other people, I slowly "forget" how to go out and have a good time. The thought of it makes me nervous and I find some way to bail.
 
I'm shy in that I steer clear of social gatherings in case I have to mix with people. But when I do make the effort I always enjoy myself. In enforced social situations I get on just fine and enjoy meeting people. This last week well I could have died last Sunday and no one would know yet, possibly till a week next Tuesday. I only realised it was Saturday yesterday when I turned on the evening news and the wrong program was on!
 
arieliam said:
Who all is shy here? I am always amazed at how extroverted everyone thinks I am, but at the very bottom of the whole thing I am shy to the power of 10 when it comes to talking to people. Now I am not shy to do things on my own, dinner or dancing, I have no problem. But just starting up a conversation is like pulling teeth.
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i am just the very same
 
I have to agree with the voices here, I, too, am shy. I'm especially so when it comes to approaching someone I do not know, but would like to, in public. I see straight guys all the time that will just say hello to girls that they think are attractive, but I feel like I could never do that to a guy because he may not be gay or he isn't attracted to me, or whatever. Lots of reasons I don't and that kind of pisses me off now that I am saying it here. Hmmm. World would be easier if we could freely compliment one another, don't you think?
 
I tend to feel very much inhibited when I meet new people and for some reason I sometimes feel intimidated by large groups and crowds. However with a bit of alcohol, I become pretty daring and naughty...
 
HA!

I sure hope I am NOT standing nearby you guys when you're making ALL these declarations of being shy!

...........For surely, one might be struck dead via a stray lightning bolt from above!!! lol


I get a warm, "fuzzy"; but that's another story!(*8*) (*8*) :kiss: :kiss:
 
Shy is not a word that has ever been used to describe me.

"Tosser". THAT has been used.

But never shy.
 
<-- incredibly shy

ive come along way in the past year though
 
i am extremly shy lol , mostly around new people , but once i get to know a person i am not shy around them, definatly not shy around my best mates lol
 
Wow, lots of shy people. I'm one of them. :(

My only friends are the few I've made in high school. I can talk about pretty much anything with them. However whenever I try to initiate conversations with other people, I always have to try and find something to say to avoid awkward silences. I HATE awkward silences.

Remember Pulp Fiction and what Uma said about uncomfortable silences? You know you're close with someone if you can just STFU for a minute and enjoy the silence. I have yet to find anyone I can do that with...

I better become more outgoing in the future. I'm not going to find my future sexy lover if I don't open up and get myself out there. Maybe I should read more, it'll provide more topics of conversation...
 
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