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I'm 19 years old from Illinois. I see everyone in a relationship and happy, it makes me feel like I'm never going to find a guy of my own.
 
Um you're 19..don't you think it's a little early to give up on finding someone? Coming from a single guy, it does seem like EVERYONE has someone, but that's not the case. I don't know how much you get out, but if you don't you need to, and if you do keep it up, but expand your horizons. Concentrate on whatever goals you have, make friends, get out into the world more..chances are that's how you will find the guy you are looking for. Hang in there man and good luck.(*8*)
 
sugar pie, I mean this in the nicest way possible, you are still a puppy. I'm not ancient myself, but you have just begun.

Don't rush it, don't stress it, go out and enjoy your youth.
 
Well I'm not exactly giving up on finding someone. I met a guy a couple months ago online and we started texting. We talked about meeting face to face so we were able to. We were driving around when he turned to me and told me that all day he was thinking of another guy. That was the first time I'd ever gone out with a guy so it has me thinking that all guys are going to be like that.
 
You're gonna kiss alot of frogs before you get to prince charming.
 
Hey, always nice to see another IL'er on here. I was in your situation, I know what it feels like. As of last month I started using those smart phone apps that are meant for meeting people around you. Well, I talked about 40-50 guys via text or chat and only met up with 2. Both times I met we just talked. The second guy, well me and him have met up twice since the initial meet and he is a great person. I never thought I would be a relationship type of guy or that I would find someone to date, but I did. It just doesn't happen overnight and nothing good comes when you just move quickly.
 
Don't rush what you can't get back...your youth.. You should be out having fun, exploring (safely) and not be in a rush. You are still young and have a lot to see and do..
 
I usually dont think about not having a bf but I guess I was just down in the dumps earlier. Thanks guys for your support! I know this kind of thing wont just magically happen for me, it would be nice if it would tho lol! My current phone wont let me use those smart phone apps to find guys near me, but once I can get a new phone I'll get on that will.
 
It also doesnt help things that I can be really shy when I first meet someone. I'm trying to get out of that tho
 
There are lots of controlling/abusive/boring relationships out there as well. Those people who are in them couldn't wait to be single for the next few years.

You're just 19. Learn about yourself first...your beliefs, life values, potential, independence, self-confidence. It will prepare you to stand your own ground when you're in a relationship...and not let the other person push you around or walk all over you like a doormat.
 
When I was your age I got into a relationship to only be dumped, I found out that I was way too young and needed to learn things on my own. 19 is way too young, why don't you wait until you are 21 that way you will have more freedom to get your feet wet in relationships and other things.
 
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