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Hey guys,
I have posted on here before but am again, really confused.
I am a single straight guy and have had past relationships with women. I am 23 years old an in college at a University in Kentucky.
I have never had an encounter with a guy, but often find myself fantasizing about one and jacking off thinking about a guy. I have recently inquired about a hook up with a guy, but none has followed through.
I believe I just am curious, anyone else in the same boat? or have any advice for me?
Thanks
 
I'd say do what you're doing, find someone you're comfortable with and try things out to see if you enjoy them. Just stay sober when meeting up, use protection, and don't let anyone pressure you into moving faster than you're ready to.
 
Id say come to NY and fulfill that curiosity with me :)
 
curius11 said:
Hey guys,
I have posted on here before but am again, really confused.
I am a single straight guy and have had past relationships with women. I am 23 years old an in college at a University in Kentucky.
I have never had an encounter with a guy, but often find myself fantasizing about one and jacking off thinking about a guy. I have recently inquired about a hook up with a guy, but none has followed through.
I believe I just am curious, anyone else in the same boat? or have any advice for me?
Thanks
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Tip: Don't meet someone online and hook-up the next day. Find someone you know/trust and ask them if it's possible. I'd say you're Bisexual because you really seem to love guys ..|
 
curius11 said:
Hey guys,
I have posted on here before but am again, really confused.
I am a single straight guy and have had past relationships with women. I am 23 years old an in college at a University in Kentucky.
I have never had an encounter with a guy, but often find myself fantasizing about one and jacking off thinking about a guy. I have recently inquired about a hook up with a guy, but none has followed through.
I believe I just am curious, anyone else in the same boat? or have any advice for me?
Thanks
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You could be Bisex (but you have to try sex with another guy before being sure)
Just get yourself a nice fella and try, you won't regret it, trust me.
Having sex with guys doesn't mean you gonna love girls any less.........it just gives you more chances to enjoy yourself
Go for it
 
I don't believe that, just because a guy is curious about being with another guy, that he's "bisexual." I think he is exactly what he said - curious. I'm curious about what sex with women: that doesn't make me bisexual (and I've been with several: I'm STILL not bisexual). Wanting an experience with something "different" doesn't make you into that other state: if you continuously, or even, years apart, have experiences with say, animals, then you're pretty clearly oriented towards bestiality. If you continually want a guy, then a woman, then another guy, another woman, and another guy over a course of weeks, months or years, you could fairly say you're bisexual.
One experience doesn't make you a "thing." It is said, anything you do once: means nothing. Two times: a coincidence - maybe. Three times: it's a pattern. This holds particularly true for behavioral traits.
Right now, he's nothing more than curious. Everything else is sheer speculation.
 
mcbrion said:
I don't believe that, just because a guy is curious about being with another guy, that he's "bisexual." I think he is exactly what he said - curious.
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If you read my post carefully, you will realise I said he should try sex with a guy before considering himself Bi
If he doesn't like it, then he is probably straight, but I bet everything that after he fucks with another guy he will like to do it again

In my experience someone that is curious about the same sex generally is Bi, then he can choose to suppress his homosexual tendencies all his life and be happily married with a nice lady, but that's another matter.
If I didn't have sex with my best friend when I was 16 I would probably be still completely "straight" because I would have never had the courage to live my homosexual urges with another guy, since I was pretty good with girls.

But after I tried homo sex with my mate, I have regular same sex experiences since then, and of course I still love pussy too.
 
To the original poster, I was in the same position not too long ago. Don't suppress your feelings. Go out and try new things. My advice would be to find a guy who's not a creep and around your age. That could take awhile but be patient.
 
Thanks for all the help and words of encouragement guys. I do appreciate it! Maybe my day will come lol
 
Curiousity is good to have. Curiousity is what propelled human knowledge of the universe. Curiosity also killed the cat. So while curiosity is a good thing, be safe about it and make sure it's something you want.
 
youfiad said:
Curiousity is good to have. Curiousity is what propelled human knowledge of the universe. Curiosity also killed the cat. So while curiosity is a good thing, be safe about it and make sure it's something you want.
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Good advice & witty :-)
 
Euro:
I'm unsure what gave you the idea I was commenting on your comment: actually I was commenting on what "darted" said.
And to add to that, wanting to have sex with someone of your own sex is quite different than wanting to have sex PLUS a romantic/emotional connection, which is a more commonly accepted definition of bisexual. It's not just the sex part: it's also having romantic feelings for members of your own sex. If it's just sex, there's a better term for that: geographically convenient sex. (Or that app called "Grindr".)
 
mcbrion said:
Euro:
And to add to that, wanting to have sex with someone of your own sex is quite different than wanting to have sex PLUS a romantic/emotional connection, which is a more commonly accepted definition of bisexual. It's not just the sex part: it's also having romantic feelings for members of your own sex. If it's just sex, there's a better term for that: geographically convenient sex. (Or that app called "Grindr".)
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Actually, that's not a commonly accepted definition of bisexuality. The commonly accepted definition of bisexuality is having sexual interest in or attraction to both sexes. This includes emotional attraction, physical attraction or both.
 
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