Size does matter

[Jaimee Adele]

Hi, I once hooked up with a man 20 years my senior, and he really couldn’t get it up anymore, and I really wanted to suck bad. It turns out he did all the sucking, and I felt deprived! When he was done sucking me dry, he cum kissed me back all my cum which I quickly displayed for him to see, and then swallowed all of it! He’s a nice guy, but I really kinda felt cheated, because I am a bottom, and did not like being a top in this action. I don’t call him anymore, because I really need something to suck on! Am I being the bad guy here??

 

[Peloso]

Did you make it clear to him that you were a bottom and were looking to suck?

His he tell you he had erectile dysfunction?

 

[Jaimee Adele]

Did you make it clear to him that you were a bottom and were looking to suck?

His he tell you he had erectile dysfunction?

He may have mentioned something like that, but I was too horny to care, until I saw it when it was too late! I really do like the guy, he was really nice, but I guess I just needed more!

 

[Peloso]

He may have mentioned something like that, but I was too horny to care, until I saw it when it was too late! I really do like the guy, he was really nice, but I guess I just needed more!

Always be clear about what you're looking for, and what you're not looking for.

 

[LoveMyPeppermill]

To be fair, sometimes one doesn't know what one isn't looking for until confronted with it.
But now you've learned a lesson about what you do and don't want and what to state upfront to a potential hookup.

You and this guy simply aren't sexually compatible, and you don't need to feel bad about that. And if he's nice and you want to be friends with him, that's a possibility.

 

[rareboy]

Welp.

What can anyone else say that isn't already said. Fortunately, no animals or bystanders were injured in this traumatic event and you can move on.

He obviously enjoyed blowing you and you obviously came in his mouth., so I don't see it as a complete loss.

And I am not seeing how size matters here. You could have a 9 inch dick, but if you have ED...it is no different than if it is a 4 incher.

 

[nycguydowntown]

When you hook up with a stranger you go with the flow. Get a dildo he can shove up you ass lol

 

[cabinfever]

Bad guy? No

You are sexually incompatible which is always a possibility with anyone you hook up with.

My advice would be to move on and find someone you are sexually compatible with.

 

[ShadowCat]

Yes and no like other have said sexually incompatible (no), flat out ghosting him (yes) at least be decent and be honest!

 

[Nude_Dude]

Always be clear about what you're looking for, and what you're not looking for.

This is why I'm ALL FOR being 'out' as a Top or Bottom at the earliest opportunity.
As a dude with diabetes, I'm in the early stages of ED.
FORTUNATELY, I've always been a quite popular and 'out' bottom.