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SO I have been seeing this guy for a little bit. His penis isn't very big and I actually feel like having something bigger would actually feel better. The issue I have is it kind of hurts sometimes because when he pulls back most of the time because of his length it comes all the way out so it never stays in. That and it feels like there is something just a little further up inside of me that is just aching for his member to rub against it but he can't get deep enough. Is this normal? anyone else ever experienced anything like this?
 
Yes, bigger can be better. Turn this guy into a suck-only partner and go find a man with the right equipment to make your twat quiver and gape.
 
Yes, bigger can be better. Turn this guy into a suck-only partner and go find a man with the right equipment to make your twat quiver and gape.

way to objectify, what if he wants him as more than just a pleasure tool?
 
I don't know that it's abnormal. I can't say I've experienced it myself, but I can see where it could be an issue, especially if you're used to someone who is bigger, etc.

Like racer said, it's not going to grow any, unfortunately - so I suggest as he did, try different positions, and maybe include a couple of sex toys that are longer - might help in the beginning, or the end. Just accommodate him if you can and see what happens. You might be able to make things work.

Can you turn down your level of expectation any? Just a thought. Don't know that it would be possible.... but.
 
SO I have been seeing this guy for a little bit. His penis isn't very big and I actually feel like having something bigger would actually feel better. The issue I have is it kind of hurts sometimes because when he pulls back most of the time because of his length it comes all the way out so it never stays in. That and it feels like there is something just a little further up inside of me that is just aching for his member to rub against it but he can't get deep enough. Is this normal? anyone else ever experienced anything like this?
It is normal. Size does indeed matter to a degree because so may other factors come into play. Uncut and enthusiasm, for instance.

The best blowjob I ever gave was to a smallish but THICK uncut cock. I sucked his dick for four hours straight. He could and did get it back up within 5 minutes and was rearing to go. He loved my cocksucking skills. Several times, he'd pull his pants back on, ready to leave then look at me and say, "Fuck it, blow me once more." He'd pull it out and I'd be on my knees again. Not much cum after the third orgasm, but that uncut cock was a joy.

Remember, you don't do precision work with a crowbar.
 
I think that if size is the most important thing to you, then you're going to be disappointed on many occasions, and you risk not enjoying sex for what it really is - great feelings, great connection between men, satisfying endings.

Sure, a big dick is nice. I love looking at them, admiring, handling, even sucking and being fucked by a big dick is nice. If you're getting sex from a guy who has a smaller dick, and size is a problem, then you have to decide - do you enjoy the sex and want more, or do you look for a bigger dick? Maybe in casual encounters, you could say nah, I'll shop around. If the guy you've been seeing is not endowed enough for you, is there something more in the relationship that keeps you there? Or do you call it quits and move on?

One of my best fuck buddies years ago had a smaller dick, around 5" and thin. He would get rock hard and would fuck like the Energizer Bunny. We found positions that worked and we both enjoyed. Another fuck buddy had a bigger dick and I enjoyed him too, more for the intimacy, sensuality and connection that he brought to each get-together. If either of those guys became a partner, it would have been because we connected. Dick size would not have been a factor, because the sex was great. The main thing, for me, as a bottom, is that he's fully functional - hard enough to achieve entry - and not a jerk.

As for the OP's other issue, if a top is pulling out and ramming it back in and it hurts, ask him not to do it. We are all consenting adults who can make choices and communicate our likes and dislikes. If he's the kind of guy who insists on pulling out and ramming it back in, even though you've said it hurts, maybe consider whether he's the right guy to be seeing. I guess the OP is long gone but I wanted to address the question for others who might be looking for advice. As an older experienced bottom, I'm full of advice more than I'm full of dick these days, lol.

At the end of the day, any dick that gets hard is suitable for sex. Whether it's enjoyable is up to you.
 
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