Sniffies and Such

[LionLeoRay]

I've led a completely straight life my entire existence - but now I want to start experimenting and acting on some of my fantasies with men.

To that end, I started a Sniffies profile - Sniffies appealed to me because I didn't need to "download" an app, I can just log on an incognito website and browse.

I was very happy to see the amount of other straight/curious guys on there, but there are alot of situations where neither of us can "host", so any potential meetups are out the window.

Also, I guess you could say I'm considered a "bear" (ie. large) so I understand I'm not everyones preference, meaning a lot of the guys I chat with aren't really into me, so when you have such a limited pool, it's hard to find someone to experiment with.

Therefore, can you suggest other ways to meet like minded straight/curious men to experiment with? I don't want to use an "app" (ie. Grindr/Scruff) because I don't want to have to download anything - I'd prefer to keep it all web based.

Additionally, are there any sites that "bears" are welcome on and sought out?

I understand this is something I could potetnially google, however when i do that I don't really trust the results. Would like to hear some real world experiences of various sites.

And lastly, for context, I live in Ontario, so anything Ontario/Canada based would be preferred.

Thanks in advance for any advice, tips, tricks or details you may have.

(Sorry if something similar has been posted in previous threads - I didn't see it so I created this one!)

 

[butterfinger]

I’m in the same boat you are. Always been straight but got more and more curious over the years. Message me if you ever wanna chat casually about this stuff.

 

[LionLeoRay]

I’m in the same boat you are. Always been straight but got more and more curious over the years. Message me if you ever wanna chat casually about this stuff.

Thank you @butterfinger - I have sent a Conversation to you!

 

[bi4rightguy]

I would love to know where to find such men at.. I have had zero luck.. Seems most are pushy and just want to jump right into bed ( CL or other similar online sites)
Most apps say free then you sign up to find there not, its very frustrating.

 

[LionLeoRay]

I would love to know where to find such men at.. I have had zero luck.. Seems most are pushy and just want to jump right into bed ( CL or other similar online sites)
Most apps say free then you sign up to find there not, its very frustrating.

I’ve noticed that too,
@bi4rightguy Most guys are super pushy and if you don’t give them exaclty
What they want they block your or delete the chat!

I kinda wanna take it slow and feel out the situation so I can move forward with the right guy!

 

[Biguy440]

On the flip side, many guys on sniffles grow impatient with the reindeer games. Stuff like let’s trade pics and you send yours and they never send theirs. Or you make plans to get together and you get stood up.

 

[marley351]

I’ve had some luck with Sniffies. They hosted each time. I tell them up front in my profile: no fakes and no flakes. It’s worked so far. Some really nice cocks too.

 

[marley351]

I just posted a Sniffies experience a little bit ago

 

[marley351]

It’s posted the “Most Memorable Shags” topic.

 

[sunalick]

On the flip side, many guys on sniffles grow impatient with the reindeer games. Stuff like let’s trade pics and you send yours and they never send theirs. Or you make plans to get together and you get stood up.

Agreed. Or they want you to come over right now. Not in an hour, not later tonight, but right this second. If you can’t meet that demand you’re finished. No more conversation.

 

[bi4rightguy]

is this Sniffies site totally free to use?
I hate these sites that say free to use then you join fill out profile then only to find out you have to pay to get messages, i would like to find a totally free site that you could chat with others and get to know.

 

[LionLeoRay]

is this Sniffies site totally free to use?
I hate these sites that say free to use then you join fill out profile then only to find out you have to pay to get messages, i would like to find a totally free site that you could chat with others and get to know.

If I remember correctly, it is free to use....but for more of the features, you will have to pay. But as far as I remember, it's most basic usage is free. I've been paying for a few months now so I don't remember what the "free" user experience is like.

 

[seven2go]

is this Sniffies site totally free to use?
I hate these sites that say free to use then you join fill out profile then only to find out you have to pay to get messages, i would like to find a totally free site that you could chat with others and get to know.

It's totally free to use even if you create a profile.
With or without a profile you can message and trade pics back and forth.
If you use a phone app I highly recommend turning off the gps though.

 

[bi4rightguy]

It's totally free to use even if you create a profile.
With or without a profile you can message and trade pics back and forth.
If you use a phone app I highly recommend turning off the gps though.

Thanks, I decided to check it out. Pretty cool. looks like you can do a bit w/o paying extra. Seems like they are way more guys around my area then i ever thought. not just to connect with one who wants to go at my pace. .

 

[DanConnorsXXX]

I had also led a completely straight life until I started meeting random men on the internet. At first it was weird and there was a lot of guilt.. now I’ll suck 4 or 5 different guys off sniffies in a day sometimes and feel great about it. I don’t even have to cum to feel fulfilled, I just really really like making other guys cum

 

[wolfypdx]

I've been using Sniffies for about a month. I'm not real keen on the interface; it's way too busy and hard to see when somebody has updated their profile (at least in the free version). So far, I haven't had a lot of luck; mostly a lot of "google it" scam contacts and adverts to go pro. I do have a couple of guys of interest, but I haven't heard back and they probably won't. I've had more luck with Squirt, but not in a long time - I even ended up with a boyfriend my first time on Squirt.

I'm cool with not taking it slow. I'm not looking for a LTR, and I don't even insist on repeat performances. But I liked the ease of use of CL.