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So.. How do you tell someone they don't have an attractive dick?

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Hi everyone.
I've been sleeping around with this guy, very handsome and has a smokin' hot ass that keeps me coming back for more, but the thing is... His dick repulses me. It just looks and feels very weird.
So every time we have sex and he puts it in my face I sorta just suck it up (no pun intended) and go down on it while trying not to gag... and not in a good way.

I'm not a top or anything I love giving blowjobs as much as the next guy, but I'm just not feeling this guy's penis at all. So how do I break it down to him that I'm only interested in his ass without hurting his feelings and losing him?

Cheers.
 
You don't. That would just be cruel.
Why not just find someone whose dick you like instead of someone whose dick "repulses" you? Isn't that easier? Sounds like this guy is a convenience for you, but you really, really, REALLY don't like his dick. Unless you think he won't be hurt by your saying this, there's no way around this one. It's like the straight guy who loves a woman's body but thinks she's a dog, face-wise. And yet, he continues to keep her company just because he loves that.
 
If you don't love him you break it off without telling him his dick repulses you. If you do love him you tell him you don't like sucking dick. Sometimes lying is the right thing.
 
mcbrion said:
You don't. That would just be cruel.
Why not just find someone whose dick you like instead of someone whose dick "repulses" you? Isn't that easier? Sounds like this guy is a convenience for you, but you really, really, REALLY don't like his dick. Unless you think he won't be hurt by your saying this, there's no way around this one. It's like the straight guy who loves a woman's body but thinks she's a dog, face-wise. And yet, he continues to keep her company just because he loves that.
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There's a difference though with the example you brought, like this particular guy is hot in every way except that part of him, which can be easily tucked away. I guess you're right, there's no way around this one. I'm not sure how sensitive he would be, but it's a general rule to not insult a guy's manhood, it will scar him forever.
BTW I hope I'm not coming across a cruel person, this thing we have going on between us is purely casual. So it's only natural to be a little shallow when it comes to my partner's body.
 
Seasoned said:
If you don't love him you break it off without telling him his dick repulses you. If you do love him you tell him you don't like sucking dick. Sometimes lying is the right thing.
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Hi Seasoned,
no we're not in love, it's just a casual thing.
 
Just curious, can you give a description as to how it repulses you?
is it because its curvy? too veiny? cut/uncut ect?
 
There's not much to be gained from saying something negative to someone about something they cannot change. About the only thing that you might gain would be a slap to the face.

Since this is not something that he can change, the question is whether you can change. If you can't change either, then you both would be better off if you stopped using him for his ass and he stopped using you for a blowjob.
 
Just focus on the pleasures of his ass and if you don't have anything nice to say, .....
 
FireBoy said:
Hi everyone.
I've been sleeping around with this guy, very handsome and has a smokin' hot ass that keeps me coming back for more, but the thing is... His dick repulses me. It just looks and feels very weird.
So every time we have sex and he puts it in my face I sorta just suck it up (no pun intended) and go down on it while trying not to gag... and not in a good way.

I'm not a top or anything I love giving blowjobs as much as the next guy, but I'm just not feeling this guy's penis at all. So how do I break it down to him that I'm only interested in his ass without hurting his feelings and losing him?

Cheers.
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Dick is not everything.
Just say i don't like sucking dick. Nice body is much more attractive than nice dick.
 
I don't think lying is a good idea for the most part but in this case...it isn't really lying to not share this with him.

Think of it this way maybe.....

There is probably one or more things you don't like about alot of people...eh?...but DO like alot of other things about them. How important is it to tell each one of them what you don't like?...and what would the point be?
 
FireBoy said:
It looks like it was circumcised by a drunk butcher.
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Are we talking about skin that is pulled... kind of a hairlip dick lol. Ouch
Look, it's simple. Ignore his dick and that's it.
Or insist that you only want to suck with a condom on... then get a condom that's dark or thick so that you don't have to see his penis lol.

I dern know...pics please.
 
Am I the only person surprise that "ugly" dick exist ? To me only the matter of big or small . No igly exist .haha
 
How bout you stop being a baby over something he can't control. If it was dirty or too hairy or too smooth of course communicate but if its only the aesthetic that is bothering you then get over it man. I'm sure you're not a model and have somethings about you he probably doesn't like but he tolerates. If it really bothers you then move on. Some guys here act stupid because I have an uncut dick, I'm like you know I can pull the skin back and it looks basically like yours right? I'm not gonna go get surgery to look like everybody else. I like having something most people don't have here. My dick is 100 percent clean so what does it matter. It's not like you can tell once it's inside a hole anyways.
 
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