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So I Met This Guy...

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So I met a guy online who lives in the same province as me (about 40 minute drive to his town from mine), and we've been texting the past few days. We've decided to meet up, I'm going to go to his house later on tonight.

I'm really nervous about things though. We've swapped pictures, he says I look really good, the problem is that I'm nervous of getting naked in front of someone. The other issue is sex and the things that come along with it, I haven't had any dating experience, let alone sex experience. I'm a virgin when it comes to everything but kissing.

My nervousness in front of people is a big issue. My friends and I occasionally go out to the cottage, and when everyone starts to go to sleep I drive home because I don't feel comfortable sleeping in front of people. Which is why I'm worried about stripping down in front of him.

Does anyone have any advice? He's a really nice guy, I don't want to mess this up by doing the wrong things, he's aware that I'm a virgin and is OK with it, I want to make a good enough first impression. I'd like to know some things I could try doing that I don't come off as a complete loser. :P
 
My theory is that getting naked is a lot easier with someone you have a chance to get to know and trust, rather than with a complete stranger.
 
I get really nervous around new people too, sometimes to the point of visibly shaking. Most guys laugh it off and some even find it cute. If he's liking you so far then he should be understanding. If he has a problem with you being nervous he's clearly not good for you.
 
Well that actually went A LOT better than planned. Turns out his mother was coming back, so I either had to go earlier than planned, or we'd have to plan again. I didn't get to read this thread before I left, but thanks for the advice anyway!

I did tell him when I got there that I was shy, but he did a really good job of making me comfortable. We just sucked each other off (69) for like 30 minutes followed by 10 minutes of frottage/kissing. We came at the same time. Enjoyable experience, can't wait to do it again!
 
Good deal :). Glad it went well

Often worrying about the unknown can be paralyzingly and counter productive to yourself and ultimately the object of your affection

Keep us posted
 
I guess I should mention that he hugged and kissed me/kissed him right before I left, telling me he was glad I came over. Is that a good sign or is that usual for people who just had a bit of sexy fun together?
 
That is a great sign... be leery of any guy who practically runs out the door. Sounds like you had a blast.
 
Ah, I guess he doesn't want anything to do with me any more. It hurts, I even mentioned I wasn't looking for a "one time deal", and he OK with that... I really fell for him...
 
The life of a gay man

Most - Many have been in your shoes

The hurt goes away quicker than u think

Hang in :)
 
You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince, I'm afraid.
 
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