so i think my bisexuality just leaned towards girls now...

[AsianDream]

You also don't seem to grasp that most bisexual men are lying about their orientation. Again until gay men stop using bisexuality as an umbrella to come out as gay, bisexuals will always be looked at with skepticism.

You are just stating your opinion as if it were a fact. I agree with Krakenbwool

You know, I just love how gay men are coming over to a bisexual male thread to say tell them that they don't exist.

Not only is it very silly to tell be-sexuall people that they don't exist - but it is also very offensive.

We get enough of this sort of ignorant prejudice from some "pure" gay people in real life - and don't expect to see it on a bi-sexual male forum.

Aren't you the one that said someone's orientation can be change? Gee I guess the scientific studies that said it can't and the over 100% failure rate of groups like EXODUS must be wrong right?

For the sort of group you mention to have a failure rate over 100% must mean they are actually turning more people gay than join the group.

Your command of basic math is obviously as weak as your grasp of statistics. In fact all I said was that mine apears to have changed - though it may well be that I was bi-sexual deep inside all the time and just didn't realize it.

 

[RSilva]

You know, I just love how gay men are coming over to a bisexual male thread to say tell them that they don't exist.

No more meat fleeing to pussy, I guess? lol

I'm bisexual (?) in an weird assymetrical way:

- I am not attracted to women in general
- I am not attracted to men in general
- I am attracted to male sexual organs
- I am not attracted nor repulsed by pussy. It's like meh, should be good fucking it but doesn't make me excited as balls or cock. Tits are even less interesting than pussy for me.
- I am not attracted to men's bodies. However, I prefer masculine man in sex (doesn't need to be bear, but generally are) as feminine men/twinks are repulsive to me.
- I am not attracted to women's bodies.
- I have never have been in love with anyone, not even a little crush. I'm cold as a stone in love.
- I had sex with men only (for now)
- I don't like "affective actions" (kissing etc) - I sort of connect it to love and affections, and as I'm not attracted to anything I don't like them. They are repulsive to me.
- I do not find attractive the thought of having a love relationship with a man
- I find attractive to have a love relationship with a women
- I want to have kids of my own

So, I'm sort of something, bisexual I guess? I had sex with men because I'm attracted to man sex, not men in general. It's kinda selfish and hypocritical (shut up and give me your cock LOL) but I'm like that... I'm 23 years old and I don't think I'll fall in love soon.

 

[stevexxx]

Never been with a dude, but Women without a doubt are better life partners. They cook, clean, and iron my clothes lol. but seriously women are passionate, affectionate, caring, loving, etc. i couldn't imagine being without a woman.
Remember, you can't have a kid with a guy, only with a woman.

 

[AsianDream]

Never been with a dude, but Women without a doubt are better life partners. They cook, clean, and iron my clothes lol. but seriously women are passionate, affectionate, caring, loving, etc. i couldn't imagine being without a woman.

Men can be just as passionate, affectionate, caring and loving as women.

I'm also sure there are about equal numbers of men and women for whom sex is a cold mechanical thing. Men or women that don't like affection, kissing and cuddling etc during sex are missing out on most of the pleasure - but that's a matter of personality rather than gender.

 

[AsianDream]

No more meat fleeing to pussy, I guess? lol

I'm bisexual (?) in an weird assymetrical way:

Yes - very strange - but guess it;s something you need to explore

 

[Yves Grey]

Your post is filled with such pure, undiluted, potent lunacy that I will not even attempt to pick through the madness to form a coherent rebuttal. Clearly you have issues, with women, and also with men. Your hatred for the female form, coupled with your utterly laughable lack of understanding of your OWN gender, is extraordinary in it's insanity. You do get points, however, for entertainment value.

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Wrong again pal. This doesn't tell you jack shit, at least not about me. I am not, nor ever have been, promiscuous. Never once cheated on my wife, never got close, and never have wanted to. But thanks for that dime store psychoanalysis, Lucy. I suppose it is true, you do get what you pay for.

justsayinghello, your eloquence and reason are appreciated and refreshing. It humbles and embarrasses me to admit that I tend to (unfairly) think the straight man incapable of such impassioned word. We all have our struggles, and we are each honed or broken by them. Thank you for reminding me of this.

Thank you also for the account of your first experience. I appreciate the power and beauty of such an experience. I think you are blessed to have had such an experience--though not as to say other experiences aren't equally a blessing.

And finally, thank you for your presence and voice here.

 

[biguy1234]

An, bi guys..
Well my friends.. fine if you want to mess around with girls or guys..
But please, don't marry a girl if you figure you may go back to guys.. not quite fair to the girls now is it?

I don't care if someone wants to go back and forth sexually between girls and guys..

So many times I've seen guys that say they are bi marry a girl and then revert back to guys..
Does not matter to me a bit if you want to fool around with both sexes..
Just please don't figure you are in love with a girl, then marry her, and God forbid have a child.. then revert back to guys.

I've always figured that the guys that cannot decide if they are 100% gay have the toughest time in this world.
Yep, I've written to many of them via jub.. and they usually figure they have the best of both worlds... well that may be so to some extent..
But I pity them too..
They are between two worlds.. It's all fine if they are just out for sex... and not looking for a LTR..
But it's a pity for the guy that meets a 'bi' guy and falls in love then the 'bi' guy decides he wants to go for a girl..
Maybe he has pressure from family or society.. maybe it's just a preference.

But the other guy will be hurt.. and then the bi guy decides he wants to hookup with a girl.. then she falls for him.. then he figures he wants to go back to a guy relationship..

I'd rather be straight if I had a choice.. but I'm gay. And I thank God that I'm not bisexual.
I think most folks that say they are bisexual may be able to have sex either way... but I'd say that most of them do have a strong perference for one sex or another.

It's tough on the partner of such a person..

You're very right. Like I said in another post. I only consider myself Bi because there are still women I find extremely gorgeous and would fuck without a second thought if given the chance (and I was single) but I still much prefer Men. Ever since I can remember actually, but I was under the christian impression that I was an abomination and that it was a choice and sort of like an "addiction" that I had to overcome and I hated myself every day for it. I felt like I needed to become straight and that I could (and would) do it eventually or else I was going to hell when I died... I would have given anything to be straight which the bi thing made all the more difficult because I could fuck girls and did enjoy it but I still would rather a man. It is only now that I have rejected that faith and that oppressive mind frame that I can honestly say I am happy with myself the way I am and I have no regrets. I feel very sorry for all the guys, like me, who are still stuck in that vicious circle of not being able accept themselves because of the ideals that other people have pushed on them, and I hope that they will stay true to themselves and follow their heart and do whatever TRUELY makes them happy, even though I understand how difficult it can be. I love my boyfriend and will probably end up marrying him and I know that God would not make mistakes and expect people to live the way I was, and that I am the way I am...