So I've Been Talking to This Guy Online...

[jaydizzo]

If you really want to go after this guy then I would suggest asking him again what happened with his partner again.

Also if he was talking to you before he and his partner broke up wouldn't that constitute as cheating and if so what would prevent him from doing the same to you?

I would try to get the facts before moving further with meeting with him. If he wont give you anything i would just let him go and look elsewhere, why set yourself up for a let down??

 

[Sunshine]

Looks like you've got high hopes and a crush.

We all know what happens when you assume things....

 

[Huskerboy]

I think you need to take your time with this guy... It sounds like things might have changed with his partner, but you can't assume that. If they have indeed gone their separate ways, you need to be careful... you might find yourself being his 'rebound guy' and end up getting hurt.

I know love is a powerful driving force in our hearts, and like Comet said, you'll meet a guy when you least expect it... that's how it happened to me!

Hang in there, relax, and let things take their course. And be careful...

(Geez, I sound like someone's Dad!)

 

[Croynan]

I DO have an idea and some input. I hate to say it Quanchi, but I think you have VERY bad luck with men. Why don't you just give it up? Everyone always says that when you give up looking for men, a good one will fall into your lap. Good lord man, just take a break and chill out. Make sure you are happy with you before you run off and try to date other guys. Just my 2 cents.

excellent posting and something i think you need to read carefully.

past that, my only other comment is here we go again.

eM.

 

[sixthson]

Could it be this paragraph that lead others to think you wanted more?

I think you really need to ask yourself why you keep picking losers, Q. You don't need to get involved with every guy who sweet talks you, you know?

Odd how only you cannot see this guy as bad news.

 

[Croynan]

Ummm.... I think I need to say some more to clear up confusion.

I never said I'm was interested in him at all. Just someone I was chatting with online, maybe a friend. He did let me know that he was partnered and was going to move in a few months. So we just chatted, I showed no interest in anything more than friendship, I was sure it was the same for him as well.

I just thinking about the last conversation we had left me with the impression that he and his partner broke up. It may not be true, but he didn't respond when I asked about it, so I can only make assumtions. I am also getting the feeling that he wants to meet up so I can be the "rebound" guy, which I'm not interested at all.

I'm also confused about why you guys think I want more with him. Did I say something in my post that may imply that I wanted to be with him? Does every guy I chat with online automatically becomes a crush? I'm just not sure why you guys would think that.

the more you say the deeper the hole becomes. just go back and read your own postings. you have said everything there already.

people are just reacting to your own words from your own mouth and fingers - READ WHAT YOU WROTE. AND IF NEED BE READ It A SECOND TIME OR EVEN A THIRD TIME.

how much more clearer do you want and or expect people to be. as far as THIS goes ?JUST READ WHAT YOU WROTE AS THE TITLE TO YOUR THREAD. that says it all.

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eM.

 

[Just_Believe18]

So now I'm having a strong feeling that he and his partner had broken up and he's wanting to hook up with me. I could be wrong, but that's what it's looking like. I'm definately going to wait to meet up with him, if that ever happens.

You just answered your own question.

 

[RukkuS]

maybe he's just updating his profile