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So sad, my ex seeking me for a 3some

innocentbychoice

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My ex and I broke up 6 months ago, after being together for 4 years. He cheated on me and I had enough. While we were together we had 3somes several times, we were experimenting and it was our dirty little secret.

I never told anyone what we did and I don't think he told anyone either. We swore it would be our secret.

Well, now these past 6 months he's been calling me, texting me, telling me he loves me blah blah blah. Same old same old. But a week ago he sent me a pic of him shirtless, so I could see how he looked after being in the gym for a few months. I didnt request the pic ( and hadn't even talked to him) and I was actually pissed off; it's like as if he thought I am some kind of sexual animal (like him) who's gonna go crawling back to him because he's got nice arms now. It was ridiculous and I was offended. I didn't reply or say anything.

Now today, he texts me telling me he wants me so bad. I answered:

ME: I bet those are the type of messages you sent to other people while you were with me. You don't respect me.

HIM: You know I didn't. And you know why Im looking for you, If I wanted them I'd look for them.

ME: hahahha, i don't want anything to do with you, so don't send me shirtless pics of you, i don't want to touch you even if you looked like brad pitt. bye.

HIM: who are you fooling?

ME: I got someone to distract me. You got it all wrong with me.

HIM: hahahah i know and i got someone too. That's why I'm proposing.

ME: If you got someone why are you looking for me? Leave me alone.

HIM: For a 3some you imbecile! Talk to you later I got no more msgs bye.


I was so hurt. First of all, after all he did to me, he thinks I would fuck him and his friend. Second, he's got no respect for me. He doesn't respect me enough not to say to his new buddy what we did when we were a couple, and he doesn't respect me enough, that he's willing to look for me to have a 3 some. And third, who is he now??? He has become a horndog who sleeps around. I'm just so sad and disappointed, I can't believe I was with him once.

PS: What I thought was weird is that his orthography was so bad. Almost like it wasn't him or like someone else was texting for him, but I do know that he was there cuz he told me something that only he knew. Either way, I'm so sad right now.
 
This is why the phone company offers call blocking.
 
I'm sorry that you feel sad but why are you surprised?

Sounds like he never respected you so why would he do it now? You did the right thing by telling him to get lost.
 
Don't be sad; be glad you're done with that loser. We all make mistakes, be happy you've learned from yours.
 
You should see this as a positive - he hasn't changed, if anything he's become something worse. This behaviour proves you made the right decision in dumping him and you shouldn't look back. If he keeps hassling you then block his calls or change your number. Good for you in telling him where to go ..|
 
innocentbychoice said:
Are they able to block text messages as well?
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bokan800 said:
Call your service provider and ask them about message blocking. Avoid unnecessary drama with douchebags like that.
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Yes, with most carriers, messages can be blocked both through number blocking and email address blocking. Some carriers will charge a small fee to block a number but it is money well spent for something like this.
 
You did the right thing, and his actions since the breakup have shown that. He is nothing more than a scumbag. Block him and continue to move on with your life
 
^I'm fucking hating the idiot right now. Everytime he shows up he fucks up my day.

He apologized the next day, but then someone told me (without me asking) that he wrote on facebook "if he takes the time to send me cutting comments is because his wound is still bleeding" or something like that (goes to show me I shouldn't have answered his text at all). What a fucking douchebag, he takes pride in knowing that I might still be hurt about his cheating ways? Ugh.

Anyways as willilikeit said, it all shows that I'm better off without him and I made the best decision.
 
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