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So.. the same shit that happene at my old school (losing all friends cause gay) is...

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happening again. Basically so far my roomie has turned all my "friends" against me but one (the girl who told me she likes me). Fuck this, fuck everything, why can't people just be fucking good for once.
 
Man I don't know what to say. Your roomie seems to have turned out to be a jerk. :grrr: I could prattle on bout how these people aren't worth knowing if they don't like you for who you are but I guess that wouldn't help right now.

I hope you take heart in the fact that you are one of the most liked guys on here.

There are good people out there you just don't seem to have been in contact with many of them.

I hope things get better for you and I hope some other jubbers will come up with some better words of wisdom than me. (*8*)
 
I know that's the way I SHOULD feel, but it doesn't stop how much it sucks when I feel and hear people talking shit about me whenever I pass them in the school, or how the guy I HAD a crush on is just totally being a douche and trying to do shit in class to make me uncomfortable, or how I feel unfomfortable and lonely when my roomie is around. I thought shit wolud be different at this school, my mistake for thinking people could be accepting.

And thanks Pringle and hornymike.
 
I'm very sorry that your "friends" turned your back on you. My advice to you would be to just completely ignore your old friends and get them out of your life. I assume that you're in college so maybe you could join a social club (like a Gay/Straight Alliance) and make friends there who have the same interests as you. Hell you could met a hot guy in the process.:D So basically stay positive and tell your friends to fuck off and leave it at that.

Also, if your roomie is an asshole, then be an asshole to him back and make his life a living hell. heh
 
NameTaken, these people are not your friends. Better that you should know now. I realize that doesn't make you feel any better and I am truly sorry for what you have been through. It is not easy. Be true to yourself and you will get passed this and on to REAL friends who deserve your friendship.
 
It must be very suffocating to be at school now. Don't worry once you leave you will meet people who won't even bat an eyelid about your sexuality. Are you going to university or are you at university? It's easy to feel as if everything revolves round school but if you joined a gay group-

http://www.queeryouth.org.uk/

and go through the Youth Group finder to find out about a local group to join then you won't feel so squashed by school. You'll realise that there is another world that extends beyond your school walls.

I know the feeling since I see quite alot of people at school as close-minded and they just remind me of those gruelling and awkward teenage years. There are times when I just can't wait to leave.
 
Sorry to hear about your problems. I had much the same at school but managed to ignore the exctretory orrifices who were tormenting me. In the end I found who my real friends were, they were the ones who didn't join in and who didn't care. Don't let it get to you. There used to be a gay social place at the Northgate centre just off Cornmarket Street in Oxford. I found it a very relaxed and pleasant venue where you just go in have a cup of coffee and meet new people. I went there about 10 years ago when I was feeling low and it worked wonders. Just a thought.
 
I've found that just being a friend to people... get them on your side one at a time.

Ask someone how they're doing... what they did on the weekend... get them talking about themselves (people love that).

I'd say that someone like you would be able to win everyone over if you divide and conquer.
 
Soil's got good advice. Start working them. You've got a personality coming out your ears, Names.

Take them on one at a time. And be yourself without any apologies. Good luck and sorry you're going through this. (*8*)
 
Names,

Sorry. Why do people have to be like that? Just remenber what goes around comes around. Take the high road, smile, say hi to everyone and your personality will win them over in about one minute flat.

Hugs to you,(*8*) (*8*)

Mac
 
Going through the same situation as you are NameTaken...Hell I'm 30! Basically long time friends I've had since High School haven't taken the news well. I'm still the same person...I just don't want to sleep with what they consider hot! :) They don't speak to me anymore....so you know what I did? I went out and made some new friends. Point being is that a friend....A true friend, will never abandon you. They don't care what you are...there your friend. These ppl are not your friends. As for the roommate situation. I just say...look were stuck with each other. You don't like me and I don't know what I did BUT we have to live together for this year. Let's act like men and just get through this...after that we don't have to speak to each other every again.

anyways that's my advice. I don't know if it help or not but there you go! Oh I be your friend if you can get me one of those Cybermen wall hanger posters that you guys have over there in the UK! Come on...I'm Canadian....were almost brothers! :D (just joking!)
 
NameTaken

From everything you've posted, you seem like a really great guy, but your personality seems to attract a crowd that would not be very cool with your sexual orientation.(in real life anyways, that is where your personality shines) I dont think you were that shocked by this as much as dissapointed. Look, those guys are not your friends if they are unable to take this well. You probably knew that too, but maybe you thought if you told them and they were ok, then you would be wrong about that and found out they really were good friends. You find out a lot about people this way.

I know this is hard for you but you will be ok. If you have to change schools again, and you can, do it.
 
NameTaken, I'm not really good at this so I hope it comes out sounding ok.

I've read a lot of your posts and you seem like a great guy. You're going through nearly the same thing I did at your age. If I tell you "it's going to get better" you'll probably tell me to piss off 'cuz that's so much rubbish when you're feeling as you do. That's what I did back then. Well, it really does get better. Rali_hates_Mondays had a good idea for you, I know when I went to BAGLY (Boston Alliance for Gay & Lesbian Youth) meetings a whole new world opened up to me. And that was in an era when being gay was taboo, hell, we never even would admit we wanked off. Now I hear it all the time from young guys.

Just hang in there, and if you ever need a guy who's been there and done that, you have a great resource here on JUB. We'll be your friends. I'm sure many of us feel we already are (I know I do) and we've never even spoken to each other. (*8*)
 
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