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Someone said that they think I'm cute on Facebook Friend Quiz

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OK, I'm kind of getting excited here...

You the app on Facebook — Friend Quiz? Where you get a series of questions to answer about your friends?

You can answer: "Yes", "No" or you can "Skip this Question".

So if you get an awkward one like "Do you think David is cute?", most people just skip it.

Well anyway, this guy that I have a crush on, well I decided to take the plunge, and I answered the following questions in these ways?

  1. Would you share a bed with David? YES
  2. Do you think David is cute? YES

I did both of them numerous times to get his attention. If he asked me why, I could just say I wasn't paying attention to the questions, etc., so it's not that big a deal.

Anyway, I eagerly awaited his response to a few questions — the same ones pop up all the time, so he obviously skipped the ones I answered when it came to me.

Until tonight. He answered the questions about me being cute, and said "Yes".

Like no-one else even answers these questions. People don't even bother saying "No", they just skip them.

I don't want answers like, "He's totally gay", just some opinions. I don't want to jump to conclusions either! Like he's fairly hot and he always smiles at me, and we've had a very small gay experience a few years back. I used be good friends with him but we kind of drifted apart. He's a really nice guy and wouldn't hurt a fly though, so I know it isn't a sly plan, but he could be curious as well.

Thanks,
DP.
 
What was the gay experience?

In any case, I'd say that 99.9% of straight guys would never do that without putting it in the frame of a joke.

You could always message him about something else and bring it up at the end as a joke: "congrats, btw, you're the only person that has said I'm 'cute' on NAMEOFAPPHERE.. The question is, though, do you ACTUALLY think that? haha"
 
>>>I did both of them numerous times to get his attention. If he asked me why, I could just say I wasn't paying attention to the questions, etc., so it's not that big a deal.

Do people really LIKE doing things the hard way? Is the "tee-hee" method still the preferred method for guys over the age of 16? I guess if that's the only way you felt you could go about it, so be it.

What do you do now, though? It isn't going to go any further unless you push it. Which means saying something like "Finally, someone whom *I* think is cute thinks *I'm* cute, too! Thanks!" But skip the LOL/JKs, OK?

Lex
 
I did both of them numerous times to get his attention. If he asked me why, I could just say I wasn't paying attention to the questions, etc., so it's not that big a deal.
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Even when answered in all caps? Unless the entire quiz was filled out that way for some reason..

But if he DOES ask about it, why beat around the bush? Then he potentially goes back to not thinking anything significant of it, which is clearly what you do not want.
 
I'll be 19 in May.

About the all-caps thing — that's just the way I typed it in this post. You just have three buttons with the three options I said on FB.

The hard way would be to ask him if he is gay and risk him telling everyone I'm into guys (even though I doubt he would do that). It may seem "simple" to you, but it's not. Plus, I had given up on him to be honest and one day was doing the quiz, feeling a bit silly, and just answered the questions.

I might ask to talk with him on MSN or something, I don't know.

Oh, the gay experience, well I was on a bus journey with my school (a couple of years ago), and I couldn't get a seat next to him. But halfway through he told me to come over and gave me his seat, and he sat on my lap for 1 hour plus while I gradually got an erection. He didn't seem to mind at the slightest and we were just laughing and enjoying ourselves. At one stage he was standing up and I had a rock hard dick and I pulled him down on it... he got a shock first, it was a bad idea, but he seemed pretty OK a few seconds later and continued to sit on my knee and gradually moved back onto my lap.

I'm not looking for probing questions into why I did this; that's not really helpful — I just want to know what you think it means, and possible ways I could ask him on MSN, etc., and what I should do if I run into him. I mean we know each other well, but it would be kind of odd if I just started chatting with him straight away when we normally just smile and say hi.

Thanks for your help.

Regards,
DP.
 
maybe he felt bad that you answered his questions so he was trying to be nice and tossed you a bone with his 'Yes' answer. he probably did it for some laugh and giggle. If I see that someone's taking my quiz and constantly putting yes for questions like those 2 questions...I can smell a bait. I'm pretty sure he's not that stupid.
 
hotb0d said:
maybe he felt bad that you answered his questions so he was trying to be nice and tossed you a bone with his 'Yes' answer. he probably did it for some laugh and giggle. If I see that someone's taking my quiz and constantly putting yes for questions like those 2 questions...I can smell a bait. I'm pretty sure he's not that stupid.
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I'm grateful for your response. Anyone else have opinions?

I don't see how he could feel bad, as he often answers questions in the app about me, he just always skipped that one.

I don't think he would do it for a laugh/giggle, but I could be wrong.

I didn't constantly do it either, just once or twice. What do you mean by 'bait'? I'm not trying to trick him or anything.

Thanks,
DP.
 
So if you're sure it's legit, why are you asking us for advice?

Seems to me like you should go for it.
 
TX-Beau said:
So if you're sure it's legit, why are you asking us for advice?

Seems to me like you should go for it.
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It's legitimate in the way I know there's nothing sly or underhand. I'm not saying legit as in "he fancies me deffo".

CenTex22 said:
In any case, I'd say that 99.9% of straight guys would never do that without putting it in the frame of a joke.
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But with this app, there's no way of putting it in a frame of a joke. As in you get series of questions about people in your friend list, and have three buttons: "Yes", "No" and "Skip this question". No way of adding notes, etc.


Does anyone think that maybe I normalised the situation and he then felt it was OK to say it, yet it doesn't mean much.

I just think it's odd since I've never got this from anyone in my friend list before, and he's a guy I fancy and suspect as bi (he recently broke up with his girlfriend).


Thanks,
DP.
 
okay so you took his test twice and you didn't really "pay attention" and put YES for both of the crucial questions. What's the probability of putting YES to the same 2 questions twice? If he's a smart guy and see the result that you input, he probably thought you did it on purpose....and wasn't an accident.

so he can either decide:

1. Oh look at this guy, he's trying to get something out of me. He tries to bait me. Well let's have some fun here and mess with this kid.

2. Hmm well he wants my attention and he's gay. Maybe we can have some fun together.

3. aww well I guess I will put yes for his question too since nobody really pay attention to some dumb facebook quiz. I mean...who takes anything serious on this site?
 
I hate that question thing it always gives me notifications and tricks me into going to see what the questions was!
 
No I've taken that quiz on facebook and if he has to go through a quiz to tell you that you are cute then in reality he probably doesn't think so if he hasn't told you so already.

Most of the questions I answer with nice responses if I don't skip or want to be mean anyway.
 
What if you ask him and he says he didn't really read the questions just like if he asked you and you said you didn't really read the questions? So if you both like each other and both denied it where does it get you?

And you don't want anyone to suspect anything about you yet you answer questions in a gay fashion. (unless he's the only one that can see it, is he?) If I saw you said that, I'd be like, ok, he's not doing a very good job of playing straight. Guess it depends on the answers to the other questions to see if it's a joking context.

Finally, he reciprocated that you were cute (assuming he did it on purpose) but then he purposefully didn't reciprocate that he'd want to be in bed with you.

How about you just be his friend and hang out and go from there? That is the better option.
 
How about you message him and say "So you think I'm cute, huh?" If he gets weird about it you can play it off like you're kidding around. If he flirts back then keep on going with it. Best of luck!
 
A guy sits on your erection, doesn't mind, and you're not sure if he's gay? >.>

He may not be ready to come out, but he's defo gay, so see where it goes, but be subtle, cuz coming out 2 another guy won't be easy for him, or you

Good luck
 
allyigator said:
A guy sits on your erection, doesn't mind, and you're not sure if he's gay? >.>

He may not be ready to come out, but he's defo gay, so see where it goes, but be subtle, cuz coming out 2 another guy won't be easy for him, or you

Good luck
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Oh shit, where did I miss that?!
 
spencer said:
Finally, he reciprocated that you were cute (assuming he did it on purpose) but then he purposefully didn't reciprocate that he'd want to be in bed with you.
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If I was him though, that's exactly what I would do, to be subtle. The thing is though, to see who answers a question, you have to have 50 credits with the app, and you only get these from answering questions. So 50 answers to unlock just one... it's very annoying. So it's possible he has only seen the cute one as well.

I added him on MSN and hopefully will have a chat with him in a few days. Will update you guys.

Thanks,
DP.
 
spencer said:
What if you ask him and he says he didn't really read the questions just like if he asked you and you said you didn't really read the questions? So if you both like each other and both denied it where does it get you?
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Exactly.

This is a pattern repeated over and over and over in the Coming Out Forum: Playing a game where "I want him to come out to me, but I'm too chicken shit to come out to him."

It doesn't work.

Make a move or cower in the corner and continue on this fruitless path.
 
There was a thread on here about a year or so ago. It was about a closeted guy in college who thought a classmate might be gay and interested. He'd post "so today he said this, and smiled at this, and I caught him looking at me when this happened". And we'd say, "Well, maybe he's interested. Maybe you should invite him out for coffee or something." And the next day, he'd post "so today he said that, and smiled at that, and he made mention of this other thing". And we'd say, "Well, maybe he's interested. Maybe you should invite him out for coffee or something." And the next day, he'd post "so today he said this, and smiled at this..." I think the thread went to five or six pages. And absolutely nothing happened.

Resolve not to be this guy.

Lex
 
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