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something happened- absolutely terrified

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Okay...here's what happened.
I was sitting at my computer when I got a series of texts from my ex-boyfriend. They said he was scared and needed to tell me the truth about some things. I knew he cheated on me once, but I didn't know the extent of it. The guy he cheated on my with was...well, a slut, and had had unprotected sex with many people. My ex informed me that he let the guy bareback him and ejaculate inside him. Not only that...my ex apparently also fooled around and had unprotected sex with several other guys while we were dating. One of the last things he said to me was "Please go get yourself tested."
Now I'm scared.
There's clinics and such around here, and I intend to get tested as soon as a can. But what if I have something? Is there any way I would know before I got tested? Like any signs? Internal feelings...sickness, etc, that happen before external?
And what if my parents somehow find out? I think the test results take 6 weeks, in which case, they would have to be mailed to my house, because I'll have gone home for summer. Even though it's technically illegal, my parents have no problem opening my mail and reading it, since they still believe they have the right to know every detail of my life. They still aren't completely sure that I'm gay, and if they found out that AND that I had something at the same time, I don't know how it would affect them.
What do I do about all this? What if I have something?
I'm so scared.
 
there is no test i know of that takes 6 weeks to get results.
it should take at the very most 1 week, stop worrying, get tested and take it from there.
here in oz they dont send results, you have to return to the clinic and get them personally, so after you get the tests done arrange to return for your results.
best wishes x
 
The clinics where I live take that long to get results. I don't know about the ones here at college.
And they're anything but supportive. My father very nearly tore my arm off once because I was going somewhere with Miles.
 
so i assume you had unprotected sex with your ex-boyfriend....
 
Not a first but eventually yes. And after the he cheated on me we went back to them for a while, but since he promised it was protected and the other guy didn't top him, we eventually stopped. And I had no idea about any of the others, since I only got to see him when I came home from college.
 
Ray:

Your college health clinic can do your testing or you can go to a public health clinic.

The standard at most US public health clinics is that people coming in for STD testing are given an exam. Usually you are given a number and results are not mailed- you must get them in person. The program is designed to be as anonymous as possible.

Some clinics do rapid HIV testing so you would get your results while you are there. Others will have you come back a few days later to get the results. You will get counseling when you get your result- whether it is positive or negative.

Please never have unsafe sex again. It is not worth all of this anxiety.
 
Ray, I certainly wished the better for you. What I want to tell you is, getting test for HIV has nothing to do with being gay or not, so your parents is the least concern. The thing you need to worry about is your own safety and that means to get tested as soon as possible. I have learned that now there are new methods to test for HIV and some test doesn't require much time (an hour I think, if I'm not mistaken. It was in our local newspaper, I don't know about yours.)

You are in a bad situation, and because of trust, you loss both the relationship and your personal health. It was not your fault, do not blame yourself either.

Your ex never said anything about his condition so as far as that go, you should not worry too much. Always be optimistic, as there's never a dead end in life. Great things happen to good people. I wish you luck.
 
man this is terrible...how selfish of that guy. But I guess it would be worse if he NEVER told you. I hope you turn out ok...and the results dont have to be sent to your house cos my uncle didnt want it sent to his mom's house so they set up a meeting to go get it. thats easy to get around, dont even second guess getting tested.
 
Here I go again, reviving my dead threads, but this is for something good.
So I went to the clinic and got tested. I got my results back, and I'm clean!
*breathes a deep sigh of relief*
 
no one knows who is doing what in their spare time.

Therefore SAFE sex always.
 
Glad you came out clean. I bet that is a relief! ..|
 
rayheartsmiles said:
Here I go again, reviving my dead threads, but this is for something good.
So I went to the clinic and got tested. I got my results back, and I'm clean!
*breathes a deep sigh of relief*
Click to expand...

Thanks for the update- it's nice when we get them.

What about the ex-boyfriend? And how was the testing experience at the clinic?
 
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