Spicing things up?

[biguy0206]

Hey guys, just wanted some ideas from the lovely JUB users as to how you keep it spicey in the bedroom? My bf and I have been together for a year now. The sex was so hot when we first got together, and now it has for sure cooled off. He is the best man ever, and I just wanted some suggestions on giving him a good romp in the bedroom.

Oh and I am the bottom, so.....

Thanks guys!

 

[gwailo]

What sort of things have you already done so we don't suggest things already checked off your list?

Also how comfortble are the two of you and where can it go?

 

[IrishYanks]

Not what you were looking for I'm sure, but I've got the same question and gonna be interested in the answers. I'm the top.

 

[racer2438]

Having sex in different places, at the beach ( if your by one), camping, at the movies, mountains, at a spa, in the bathroom, in your car, using sex toys, role playing, at a park, at a hotel, on a trip some where, in back yard, and the list goes on.......


my honey and I have been together for 26+yrs and our sex is hotter now than b4, andwe are always looking of new ways. Our best one is hicking behind a water fall and having sex...that was so hot for us....

 

[Seasoned]

Role play, light (or heavy) bondage, blindfold, ice followed by hot beverages for guy giving a blow job, sex coupons, make a gloryhole out of plywood or cardboard, body shaving or trimming, sexy underwear, dirty talk, passive top/active bottom, pretend you're making how to videos: blow job, rimming, fucking, food play, all nude day or weekend, put on a jo show, timed blow jobs, foot play, double headed dildo, other toys, water sports, doing it public (safe environment), one gives the other a bath, use gay sex manual, try out a new fetish, do it in pitch black darkness, do it on a private hotel balcony, make the bottom do chores, make phone calls, pay bills, etc while getting fucked, top watches porn while bottom services. Just a few of my ideas.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I'm glad I'm not the only to think of the double headed Dildo

I'm in the same dilemma. I'm vers and my bf's a vers-bottom, so it seems like it would be such a different experience.

 

[Georgiadude]

I bought a ton of different size candles. not just a few. I mean a ton. I set up a card table in the bed room with fresh strawberries and chilled champagne (non alcoholic, he's 19). I had 2 red roses in a vase. I put candles all over the bed room and in the bathroom as well. I made a cd of our favorite love songs and had it playing in the background. It was so romantic. we fed each other strawberries and drank champagne. the candles were burning and the sex was AMAZING. After we snuggled for a bit I lit the candles in the bathroom and we took a shower together. It was so much fun that I did it again a few months later. I saved the roses and let them dry. I have them in my room and it reminds me of the wonderful times we had. Just be careful with burning candles. I had a lot of wax to clean up.

My bf. is from Brazil. I went to the dollar store and bought a bunch of streamers the color of the Brazilian flag. I put the card table up in my room again and had a cake made with our names on it. I decorated the bedroom with the streamers. I had bought him several small gifts and wrapped them for him to open. just small things, his favorite candy, chocolates, pair of undies, a game for us to play and a movie to watch. I had the dried roses on the table and it made him get teary eyed. We fed each other cake and then made love. It was wonderful.

give those a try.

Steven.

 

[bankside]

Well the obvious answer is to try versatility.