Starting an adventure

[ncaladv]

Hello,

I've looked on the forum for information and advice, and think that it's about time to stop lurking and get more involved with my exploration...

I consider myself straight for most of my life; however the last couple of years have found myself more and more curious. I also go through phases where I just go a little cock crazy. I now consider myself bi, vers top (but would consider a lot of things with the right guy..). I've spent some time on other dating sites, but thought this may be a better site to get some advice (and maybe make some friends ).

I'm in my early 50's, smart, good sense of humor, and enjoy a lot of outdoor activities (biking, hiking, paddling, snowboarding,...). I am married and need to pursue my adventures discreetly.

 

[talbot57]

Welcome to JUB

 

[Cormac135]

It's great to have you here.

 

[xyxyxy]

Hello and welcome to JUB

 

[ncaladv]

Thanks, I'm glad to join the community

 

[sixthson]

Your thread is not an uncommon one here at JUB. Specifically what information and advice are you looking for?
Since you are looking to go behind your wife's back, I personally have no advice that would encourage you in that direction. I would just suggest you think long and hard about doing anything that would undoubtedly hurt her and potentially destroy your marriage, not to mention the damage it might cause with your children, if you have them. I'm sure you realize this is no little thing you are considering, but you need to think of the others in your life. I hope you make wise choices.