Starting to worry a little..?

[JustLittleChris]

Hey guys

So here's the deal, I'm 18 years old (not been for long) and I've never had a proper boyfriend before. I'm not really 'out' but I think I'm planning to quite soon.
I've been to a bunch of these online chat rooms and stuff but it's just full of guys looking for sex and stuff, and it just bugs me so much that I can't seem to find a decent gay guy anywhere!

I've had like, 'online' boyfriends before, and I really liked being close to a guy in texting and stuff but I never met them, which sucks.

It's not like I'm completly unattractive either, I mean, people say I'm good looking and stuff so it sometimes really annoys me haha

Anyway, I know I shouldn't be worrying about stuff like this at my age but it really is starting to bug me cause I really want meself a fella lol

Anyway, does anyone have any tips on meeting decent fellas? All help is much appreciated

Thanks a lot boys

x

 

[G-Lexington]

Keep getting older.
Keep being friendly.
Keep your options open.

Wish it was more interesting than that.

Lex

 

[Lefty]

Lex was succinct and correct too.

Fact is, many of us still haven't had that PROPER boyfriend yet

but still have had one hellah good time on the extended searches.

 

[rareboy]

Work on meeting people in real time in the real world. You'll end up making some great friends, getting your heart broken, falling in love and having terrific sex.

Don't piss away all your time trying to scout it out on-line.

 

[lonnie1]

Don't look for a boyfriend on a sexually oriented website. That just invites trouble.
Stick to the sites that are more oriented toward relationships, or start chatting in places about your interests--sports, movies whatever. Just enter the word gay in front of your interest and you'll probably find a group of gay guys interested in it as well.

 

[KaraBulut]

Well, just pointing out something...

In your post, you didn't reveal much about yourself- what you do for fun, what are your interests, what kind of guy you're looking for...

That is the key, really, to finding something other than a fuck or a one-night stand. You want to find guys that you have something in common with- like shared interests or hobbies.

Also, whether you live in an urban area or a town with a university or out in the boonies would influence what we could suggest.

So, let's start there- what are your interests, where (approximately) do you live and what kind of guy are you looking for?

 

[JustLittleChris]

Hey guys!

Thanks for all the feedback, it's nice to see I'm not the only one in a similair position

Anyway, to tell y'all a little bit more about me:
I'm in the east midlands of England and like to hang out with my friends and stuff for fun
I don't really have many hobbies which I guess is my downfall in meeting people hah Starting the gym soon though so I guess that's a fairly decent place to meet people, right?

Anyway, I live in kinda a small town and I'm always busy with college work and stuff so I find it hard to 'go out and meet guys' cause there really isn't a great deal of places to go around here I guess