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some might remember months ago i had a thread talking about a guy i couldn't get over. how we were close at one time but now its like i'm giving 90 and he's giving ten. well things have changed. i don't go to the same school but still live in the same neighborhood and i haven't seen him since i transferred. i've gained alot of great new friends since then and reconnected with some old ones. its been great, then i went on a trip and met people that made me as happy as he used to. the place is exactly where i wanna be not just for them, but for the location, my family is there, everything about it is perfect for me and i'm working on graduating so i can get to college there by next fall. i really felt as though after this trip, i was over him. meeting those people that i had such an amazing time with i really believed it was finally able to move on. and just today, i was talking with some friends and they mentioned him. all of a sudden i was filled with sadness thinking about how much i missed him and wanted to see him and be with him and talk to him. i thought about the last time i saw him and if i would ever see him again and for the millionth time i replayed our history in my head. it was so wierd how just his name brought on a rush of all these emotions when i thought i was over him.
 
I know what you're talking about. I recently had the same thing happen to me. I was with him for quite some time, and it's hard to get over him completely and I understand that I will never get over that, but I will have to learn to live with it. Hell he incessantly contacts me to ask or say random things, and I just ignore him and it. I dont think it goes away, we just learn to bury things, just my opinion on it.
 
Yeah, expect that to happen more. I mean you put a lot into a friendship and it's bound to surface up again. It's still early on for you. It's okay miss the guy and the friendship as long as you don't dwell on it. A part of you may always miss it. The pain, it doesn't sting as much as time goes by. Cliche as it sounds, keep busy with work and school and friends and you'll be fine. You'll heal; you just won't know its happening. It'll feel like you haven't healed at all, but you are. You're well on your way. Keep your chin up!
 
It's probably not him you miss but the realtionship. The longing for the closeness, etc.....

Do not worry. This too shall pass and you will find someone else that makes you fell that way times 10.

Mac
 
thanks guys. your words have help a lot. i just have to remember there is someone out there i will meet that like mac said will make me feel 10 times better than he ever did. i just wish that day could be soon. i have been thinking about him more since then but i really need to stop.
 
it usually took 1 year and a half to get over one guy. good luck. time will heal the pain.
 
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