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Stopped a teen from getting bullied today.

racer2438

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We are fuming mad.........On our way home from store going through parking lot, these teens were running in between cars. At first we though they were just running thru lot. But then we rolled down window and we heard gay slurs, foul names and threats and the lead kid a bit bloodied.

So my honey turned around and followed and as we turned around the corner they had this poor kid cornered in a alley and he looked scare shitless he was bloody, and torn clothes. I guess they thought we were just going to drive on by, so my honey turn in and slamed on the brakes and scared the crap out of them and then got out of the car while I call the police. Just so happened that a cop was coming down the street and I flagged him down while on the phone.

The cop took down all there info and then called in other car and arrested them for making bodily threats,assult/ battery, gang affliation, and hate crimes.

But once things were under control, and we gave the kid some water and napkins to clean him self off, we saw he was one of our good friends kid. Everything was happing so fast we did not reconize him and since he was crying so much it all took a bit to see who he was.

But (Josh) he is only 13 just hugged us and cried and cried and he could not stop shaking. So we took him to hospital and called our friend. He checked out ok and was sent home with cuts and bruises, but his spirit was gone.

We just can't believe this happen in front of us and we are thankfull that we were there in time. They cop asked if we wanted to press charges as a routine question, and of course we said yes.

These poor kids, just a shame they all in the news for this crap.....


And about 10 minutes ago Josh came with his dad to say thank you and we all had a good cry together. But now we have to get Josh back to feeling better and get his big smile back. So we are going to take him on a little get away so he can relax and heal and try to get back to some what of a normal life b4 this ordeal.....we know it will never go away but we hope it will make him stronger and he will be alright. His dad just started a new job and has to go overseas and he was going to send Josh to his exwife, but Josh did not want to go there he wanted to stay with us. So with his mom permission we are taking him for a weekend get away..


Anyone you guy's been through this, this is harder to take than we thought. And feel so sad right now........
 
A small victory! Congratulations. And at the moment he most needed a hand, you had the opportunity to be there...
 
This is when i get that great feeling that as gay men we are starting to stop looking the other way.
All i can say is thank god you two great guys were there :=D::=D::=D::=D::=D:
 
Awesome!

Angels you are!


I couldn't agree more!!!! Let's hope those kids will learn their lesson. If I may make a suggestion, to help rebuild this kid's confidence, see if he will take karate lessons. Hopefully he will never need it, but his confidence will show and that deters people.
 
You both did a wonderful thing today. Hold your head up high and be proud of yourselves.
 
Awesome! Angels you are!

I agree! You two were sent to rescue this young guy just in the nick of time. I was really touched by your bravery!

Just curious though, why was Josh being bullied?
 
I agree! You two were sent to rescue this young guy just in the nick of time. I was really touched by your bravery!

Just curious though, why was Josh being bullied?



He said they were in gym class, and while changing back into street clothes he said one of the kid's that had hit him, had a simi boner and most kids in that row looked at this other kid's boner and laught and made joke's.

And that Josh did not say anything but just looked and he said they caught him looking longer than other's.----Such BS..

Now while Josh may be curious he is only 13 for crying out load.... I don't know any kids that don't look at the other guy's in gym class.

Josh knows about his dad and us and our circle of friends. And he is very comfortable, curious, open minded, normal, very smart young kid. Even his mom is ok with the dad being gay and she is not afraid for her son when she lets him go to his dad's. He shows no signs that he is gay, and he is still very young, and if he is -- he is -- if not -- then he is not why would that matter.

But still no one has the right to assualt another person let alone 4 against 1

She is very gay friendly lady. She gave permission for us to take him for the weekend so you know she trust us, she is really nice lady, most mom's would not let that happen.
 
I couldn't agree more!!!! Let's hope those kids will learn their lesson. If I may make a suggestion, to help rebuild this kid's confidence, see if he will take karate lessons. Hopefully he will never need it, but his confidence will show and that deters people.


Good idea,

we are having lunch with his dad and mom today, while Josh stays home to heal. He did not want to go to school all briused up--can you blame the poor kid.

We will bring that up. I told my honey this and he said he would pay for it if it was ok with the parents..


So cross our fingers..
 
Good job, racer... in this age, far too many people would have ignored the situation, as "not my problem".
 
Me and my best friends little brother were in the park. He saw these two kids and asked me if we could leave. He told me that those two kids bother him. I told him they won't do anything with me here and if they do, I will handle it.

They walked over, with me right there talking to him, and starting calling him a fat gay kid. I ended up starting an argument with him and they left.

I can't stand this. I hope those kids in your story get in serious trouble.
 
racer, well done, man. Well done! ..|

You are a hero to that boy, and his father. I'm so glad you were there and willing to act. :=D:
 
If it is possible, I'd have him transfer to another school. Learning self defense is a good suggestion.

Thank goodness you were there and stepped up to the plate.

It breaks my heart.
 
This is when i get that great feeling that as gay men we are starting to stop looking the other way.

this is a misperception. we never looked the other way. we just as a whole been too meek to say or do anything about it. we stared right at it but then used porn and sex to medicate ourselves from some pretty harsh realities in life.

how to stop bullies: bullies only understand power. u have to overpower them. you have to stand up to bullies! Don't ignore them, or 'walk away.' also bullies naturally pick on boys who are socially isolated. encourage shy , sensitive boys to make friends. encourage sensitive faggy boys to stick together, instead of being self-loathing rude and judgemental to each other. bullies just target kids who are socially isolated above all else. encourage ppl to make friends!
 
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