Straight best friends

[Bestfriends]

Me and my best friend went on holiday together for two weeks to Tenerife. We've always been close but these two weeks really changed. For starters there was two single beds but he asked me to sleep with him because he doesn't like the dark but the light was too bright (silly I know) but I did anyway because we're used to sharing a bed because put it this way me and my family don't always get along so I practically live at his house. we went out on the first night for drinks and he got a little two carried away and I ended up almost carrying him back to the hotel, once we got back I put him in bed and went to the bathroom to wash and brush my teeth before going to bed. I walked over to the bed to find him naked in bed so I tried putting boxers on him but he wouldn't co operate, in the end I just left him like that and got in to bed with sweatpants on. I laid down and straight away he was cuddling into me and he rested his hand on my lower stomach which I thought nothing of. I started to drift off when I felt his hand on my dick I moved it away and turned on my side to face him, I wrapped my arms around him so he couldn't move much and went to sleep. In the morning i woke up before him but just payed there trying to sleep again then and I felt a hand on my dick again I opened my eyes to find him not sober with his head on my chest and his hand stroking me through my sweatpants. I didn't mind it, it felt really good actually so I started to get hard and I let out a small mood he turned his head to look at me then all of a sudden he just kissed me I was shocked but kissed back anyway long story short I ended up fucking him... The next day we went to the water park, I wondered why we was getting dirty looks off of people until I looked at his hips and neck and looked at all the scratches on my back. It was so embarrassing but now we mess around all the time but I think he has feelings for me which isn't good what can I do?

 

[lambdaboy]

See where it goes man!

 

[jaysizzles]

Doesn't seem like either of you are straight.

You are "best friends", you sleep in the same bed and have sex...what part of that "isn't" good? If it isn't how you imagined how your life would be, you may want to rethink it...

 

[IceColdLover]

Do either of you identify as straight or bi? If he has feelings for you, do you feel the same way? If you do, or even if you don't, don't pass up on a "friends with benefits" deal, it could make for some hot times, and don't care if anyone gives you guys dirty looks. Is he dating a woman or are you?

 

[Shelby29]

Doesn't seem like either of you are straight.

You are "best friends", you sleep in the same bed and have sex...what part of that "isn't" good? If it isn't how you imagined how your life would be, you may want to rethink it...

I agree with jaysizzles; I wouldn't mind a best friemd w/benefits like you have!

 

[mcbrion]

Is there a reason you don't just ask? You can have sex with him, kiss him and sleep with him - but you can't talk to him?? Keeping in mind that a word, once spoken, cannot be taken back, you risk ruining whatever the relationship IS by pretending something isn't happening.
Just ask him, "When we fool around, do you see this as just us having fun or is it different for you?" And if he says "more," than take his hand, put your other arm around him (the physical closeness offsets bad news sometimes) and gently say, "Man, I love being with you, but I hadn't thought of us in 'that way'". And don't pull away (literally, in that moment) if he gets upset (which he might). Just stay gentle and non-defensive. Most of us have been rejected at one time or another, and the worst thing is the other person getting defensive. Just nod, and say, "I get it, man, I understand where you're coming from. I just never saw it that way" and look (as I'm sure you are) genuinely sympathetic. And try to hug him even if he's angry after that. Someone will remember you tried to be caring and it shows you care how they feel. If you're not touchy-feely, just remember you were rolling around in his arms for the past X months and you sure were touching him then.
The thing that most wrecks relationships is fear: it is a lousy glue. THE worst.