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So i have been in a relationship for the last 7 years with a women I really love. Back in high school I started having odd feelings, I wanted to be a bottom and give someone a BJ now Im almost 29 and I find my self having the same feelings. I recently purchased a book with gay stories, hard on the entire time I was reading it, I decided to buy a dildo and see what its all about. I tried it in a shower and wasnt impressed however a day later i decided to give it a try again..god it was good! I found my prostate and jizzed all over my stomach, face and neck. When i jerk off now I try to look for it just about every time.

Now I know I want to try experimenting before my 29th birthday in few months but how? Do I go to a club? Use an app? How do I stay safe and make sure I stay healthy? I am now set on fulfilling my desires, but whats the first step?

I typed this on my phone in the middle of the alps...sorry for typos
 
If you one a one-time thing, I'd recommend finding someone who wants the same and be completely transparent with them about what you want, and what you are looking for. You want it to be safe, comfortable and an experience you don't regret.

However, I'd also be open with your GF/wife, or whatever she is with you. It's not fair to her for you to be keeping this a secret, and then cheating on her, because cheating is never the answer.

That being said... show us the goods ;-)
 
Although you didn't specifically ask about discussing the topic with your female partner first, I tend to agree with OnlyHuman AND urge you to talk about it BEFORE you go further. She deserves to know about your curiosity because it's part of you. And talking about it with her might help you figure out more of what you really want and need to feed this curiosity. Can she help? Who knows? Even you won't know unless you bring her into the conversation.

Regardless how you deal with discussing it with her, be safe, be clear about your expectations, and be willing to learn something. You'll find someone to "play" with if you're patient.
 
It would be good to let your partner know what's up. If she's okay with it, she might suggest a friend. Be safe and enjoy yourself.
 
Tell your woman, she might be into fucking u with a strap on. trust me, some things you never know until you bring it up
 
If you are only looking for anal, your GF can help. If you are looking for more with a guy, go for it.
 
Ok...bringing it up with your GF is the best thing you can do. You can start off with fantasy talk. You start with something small, then she tells you something. Let her know that you want her to really open up and not be scared to tell you anything and see if you can get her to unload something pretty deep. Then maybe bring up that you have used a dildo on yourself and it feels really good when it touches your prostate. See if she wants to help you out with that. Go from there. Maybe she will get intrigued and ask if you ever fantasized about getting fucked for real. You can give her a dream scenario where you and her were fooling around and she got on top of you and you felt something slide into your and you it felt amazing. When you looked down, she had a Real Cock and you felt conflicted, but it still felt good. After that, you had a dream where you had a MMF threesome with her and she begged you to do stuff with the guy, and you did. Her reactions to you two made it even better because she loved to watch you two. These are just suggestions of stories you can tell to gauge her reactions. Tell her that if she wanted something like that that you would consider it...but might need some coaxing to get going. Anyways, sometimes half truths can lead to the whole truth once she knows you won't judge her and she won't judge you. Just suggestions. Keep us posted. I hope you get all that you hope for. I am still at the anal stage with my GF. She has used toys on me and is willing to try a strapon when I buy one. We'll see how far I can get it to go. We have already had several FFM threesomes...so her bisexual needs were met. I will try to get my curiosity needs met soon I hope.
 
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