Straight friend crush!

[BoiIntrigue]

I have to start off by screaming!!! AHHH.

I have this huge crush on my straight friend. He's frakking hot, sweet, fun, charming to all hell, funny, cute, and did I mention hot? He plays the guitar and has these eyes that make me weak in the knees.

Some of my friends actually think he might be gay, but I'm 99.9% sure he's straight. I'm too scared to ask, but I can't get him out of my head.

Oh, what's a homo to do?

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Oh, what's a homo to do?

Few readily available options:

Either get your shit together and ask him, or move on and leave the dude to his girlfriends.

Use the Search function of JUB and spend the better part of next year reading countless threads dealing with that very same topic.

Conclusion: You won't know, till you ask. And you really want to know, if he is willing to mess around with you rather than, if he is gay or not. So, ask a pointed question.

And yeah, think hard and think at least twice, before you choose to waste your time, energy and emos on a conquest that is more likely to fail than anything else. The cost of that failure being a loss of a friend, among other collateral demage?

SC

 

[BoiIntrigue]

If, as you say, you're 99.9% sure he's straight, what are you expecting to happen?

I don't have any expectations. I was just ranting about my situation.

 

[seven_sins]

Does he know you are gay? If he does and he is gay, I would think that he would have told you. As frustrating as it might be, I wouldn't jeopardize a friendship by coming on to him if you don't know that he is gay.

 

[Soilwork]

Oh, what's a homo to do?

go get laid by someone who wants you back.




Jasun.

has.

spoken.

 

[JackFTwist]

straight guys don't sleep with men

if you can connive for one to do so, he will hate you afterwards for all the guilt he will feel and the need to cleanse his gay act by hating the person he holds responsible

meanwhile lots of gay guys can't get dates because so many gays are chasing straights (which may be the point, fantasy relationships ar easier than real ones)

my adage: it is as dumb for a woman to think she can make a gay guy straight with a good fuck as it is for a gay guy to think he can make a straight guy gay with a good fuck

 

[Comrad]

What is this, the oldest story in a homo's book. Ive seen/gone through this before. Best thing to do is move on, don't even ask him. If a person is tight leave him be, and i he was gay and in the lest interested he would at lest throw you a hint or two and if he doesn't that means he snot interested in anything then a mutual friendly relationship, so leave things as they are and go find somebody who is interested.

 

[D-Base]

You can never be sure that he's straight. It's just an assumption that you made. And it may be wrong. Wish you luck with dat.

 

[tomind]

I think everyone has wanted to be with a straight friend - I know I have - I have known my best friend for 32 yrs and still think about him alot but I know it is not going to happen.

 

[trawler69]

If he knows you are Gay then he is either straight or not interested. If he doesn't know then the only way to find out is NOT to ask him, but to non confrontationaly let him know that you are Gay. When I say non confrontationaly I mean mention an ex boyfriend, even if you haven't had one, when spotting a hot guy say "I could so fancy him" anything so he doesn't think you might be coming on to him, that way you don't jeapardise your friendship if he is straight by making him feel uncomfortable.