Straight Friend One Nighter...

[KennyD]

Maybe he is "Curious" ?

Why not have him stay over AGAIN ?
Then; take a shower ect and "accidentally" let the towel drop and watch his reaction .....
Then; just put on underwear and go around like that ... and see if he joins in ....
Suggest a porn ..and see what happens ... GOOD LUCK !

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Meh.

Men who play games are so boring.

If you like me, come out and tell me. If you just wanna flirt and play games with me, here's a toy... I'll go find a man who's outgrown that bullshit.

 

[Caaake]

thats one of the hottest scenarios. So turned on reading that. making moves on a straight friend. Could you give more details about what happened and how he flirts with you
did you take the blanket off when going for it or did you move your hand under the blanket

 

[biguy732]

Well, in my experience - he is definitely either bi or at the very least curious. Since you have already given him a hand job and he is doing some serious flirting with you, have him sleep over again and see where it goes. Just the fact that he was sleeping in your bed with you (and you are not teenagers) suggests to me that he would like to fool around. When I was in high school I stayed over at a few friends houses and we would sleep together on the floor (usually after falling asleep watching TV), but once I graduated college, they went to bed and I took the couch if I slept over. The only times after college that I slept in someone's bed was if I wanted more than sleep - but that is just me.

 

[FabFairy]

The least you could say is he is curious.

Huh!! You say to kiss him is being a little too forward but you had your hand on his throbbing cock and you jerked him off!! So what do you call that showing some mild interest??

 

[conrad]

Give it time. You have no way of knowing positively what your friend's sexual orientation may turn out to be.

My own take on this is that when one bonds with another human being and that bond becomes so strong that both need and want some physical way to show the affection they have for one another--that is when sex happens naturally and seems so right. No one has had to be tricked into anything. My suggestion is that you both be very sober and take the time to mull over what has happened between you in the afterglow.

The sex is fantastic because it comes as a confirmation of the bond of friencship and love that already exists. In my own experience it iwas transformative; in my case it was two young fellows who thought themselves to be "regular guys" found out that there was this wonderful other side to their sexuality. It lasted through the last two years of high school. Our sexual relationship is past, but the love we have for each other remains.

 

[biguy732]

The least you could say is he is curious.

Huh!! You say to kiss him is being a little too forward but you had your hand on his throbbing cock and you jerked him off!! So what do you call that showing some mild interest??

Kind of like rounding the bases backwards - third to first.

He is definitely curious at the very least - he has already cum with you jerking him off in your bed - and then you ate his cum with him in bed still!

Perhaps expressing a great deal of interest will be with cum dripping from some orifice in the future.

Sorry - I just find this thread a bit funny - good, but funny.

 

[dt75006]

Make plans to go out together again, to the bar or something, and let him drink while you're out having fun. Let him get good and buzzed.

Don't let him get so drunk that he's going to pass out on you as soon as he hits the bed, just let him drink enough to be feeling good and relaxed.

After a couple hours, just casually say you think he's had enough and take him back to your place, but make sure no one else is going to be there.

When you get there, get him another drink and then take him to the bedroom. Tell him he can kick back on the bed if he wants, and nudge him in that direction while you pull his shirt-tails out of his pants. If he's been drinking, he won't refuse kicking back on the bed, then pull off his shoes, if he hasn't done that himself already. Put on some music, not too loud though.

Here's where your big move comes in.

Casually make the comment that you need to take a shower, maybe you smell like smoke from the bar or something, doesn't matter.

Then just strip.

Don't strip like you are putting on a show for him. Just strip like you would if no one was in the room. Sit on the bed and pull off your shoes and socks. Stand up and drop your jeans then pull off your shirt. Then the moment of truth, drop your boxers and toss them somewhere. Don't look at him, don't act as if you are trying to get him to notice you, just act casual as if to let him know you aren't shy about him seeing your naked body.

Kill a little time before you actually go to the shower. Dig through your dresser drawers, rummage around in the closet, tidy up the dirty clothes that have collected on the floor, anything that will let him see you for a couple minutes.

Go to the shower, but don't rush. Maybe at this point he might decide to strip down and climb in the shower with you.

If he hasn't made an appearance after 10 minutes then just finish up, dry off and go back into the bedroom. If he didn't join you in the shower then he'll still be on the bed.

Turn off the lights and lay down on the bed beside him.

At this point, he's either interested and something will start happening between you two or nothing will happen, which you can conclude it's because he's either too drunk and fell asleep or he's not that curious.

Either way, stripping in front of him and letting him know you don't mind him seeing you naked should provoke some kind of reaction.

Good luck, and post something to let us know what happened.

 

[mblad99]

Well, that was a great night!! However, if your friend is playing strip poker with a bunch of guys, jumps into bed with you and then lets you stroke him, he is not totally straight. If I were you, I would invite him over again for another sleep over. See if he jumps in bed with you. If he does, then I would try some pillow talk and find out what he's thinking, before any action starts. Maybe a pillow fight or some wrestling just to break the ice. I would not bother with alcohol, it would only complicate things.