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Straight Guy Looking for More?

Tar_Heel-n-ATL

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most str8 guys don't comment on another guy's clothes, hair, etc.

sounds like there is something unusual going on, just hard to tell what ... does he engage in physical contact with you? (touching shoulder or back, hugs, etc.) - it also sounds like he's on the "offensive" in all this and you just receive his compliments or whatever?

the best defense is a good offense - turn the tables and start pointing out things about him, try and engage in physical contact with him - see how he reacts ... he'll either accept your advances or may act a little cool - then you'll have a better idea of his intentions
 
invite him out for a drink and see what happens ;-)
good luck!
 
I agree with shystud, ask him out for a casual drink after work one evening. No strings attached other than to get to know him a bit better on a one on one basis.

He sounds like a lovely guy and maybe the reason for the divorce is something other than the wife not wanting to be married but let him tell you that.

I reckon, keep it casual because with you not being out, I don't think trying to make physical contact straight up (excuse the pun) could be a good thing.

Let us know how you go. And if he is straight and just looking for a friendship, cool. But if he's Gay and wanting to explore each and every inch of your body with his tongue, COOL!! Better to know than not, huh?:wave:
 
Don't fuck where you eat.

This is a friend of yours from work who's just been rejected by his wife for no reason other than "I don't want to be married". He needs a friend. Be a friend, be supportive, be there.

Don't make any moves on him... it's the last thing he needs.

And besides... as I stated right off the top... don't fuck where you eat.
 
^^^
Jasun has given you some excellent advice.

It's clear from your words that you have a great working friendship with this man. Encourage the friendship only.

If you think that this relationship could go to another level, then you may want to think about another position in the company, away from the department where you now work, away from constant contact with each other. If this is not possible, then you need to find another position elsewhere, or continue to develop a platonic relationship with this guy.

If you become really good friends, then I hope you will get to the point of trusting this man enough to tell him about your sexual orientation. If that happens, he will clearly let you know where he stands.
 
Straight Guy Looking for More? No he isnt..

Definitly wishful thinking from what you have posted.

He has given no hardcore indication that he wants you in a sexual way.

Enjoy his friendship and be his friend, he needs a friend now, not a lover.

If you have a hard time just being his friend, tell him you are gay and level with him.

Once a hot straight guy at work said to me,

"Newboy12 if you were a girl i'd make love to you"

Until he says that to you its not going to happen.

P.S. - which island are you in guy?
 
IslandGuy40 said:
How do you know if a "straight" guy is interested in you in more than a friendship?
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Ask him. But to me it just seems like he is a nice guy.

Tar_Heel-n-ATL said:
most str8 guys don't comment on another guy's clothes, hair, etc.
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I know lots of straight men who put a lot of effort into their appearance and comment on others.
 
Once a hot straight guy at work said to me,

"Newboy12 if you were a girl i'd make love to you"
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A nice thing a guy I was friends with once said to me was "If I was gay I would fancy you" He didn't know I was gay. Perhaps you could try that with him. It doesn't out you but lets him know you are not homophobic. I don't think you would have anything to lose or risk anything you are just letting him know that you appreciate him as a friend and leaving the ball in his court.
 
Of course what you regard as overly friendly may be normal for him. It all depends on how you are brought up. In England hugging a guy can be considerd "gay" while in France it is a normal greeting.
 
Friends don't go on trees, but they do need to be cultivated. He's obviously going through a rough time right now. If you like him, and he likes you, spend a bit of time together for comany's sake. Don't worry about the sex. It will take care of itself. Joe
 
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