Straight guys: do you wish you were gay or bi?

[whatdidyousay]

Nope.

But I did use to watch gay/bi porn occasionally. It added a nice taboo spice and the right clip could be pretty hot. But lately it's not doing much of anything and I sorta wish that it still did. It's weird, I know.

 

[gdwatcher]

I do sometimes think about being bi. But that is only so I can relate to straight guys more. If that is even possible. I have spent many years "degaying" myself for lack of a bette word. Learning about football and cars and girls just so that I can more easily seduce straight guys. And on a girl note. For some reason boobs bother me more than va jay jay. I kind of find them gross at this time.

I think being bi would help in the since that I would not have to create a fantasy.

 

[yummylongsword]

I do sometimes think about being bi. But that is only so I can relate to straight guys more. If that is even possible. I have spent many years "degaying" myself for lack of a bette word. Learning about football and cars and girls just so that I can more easily seduce straight guys. And on a girl note. For some reason boobs bother me more than va jay jay. I kind of find them gross at this time.

I think being bi would help in the since that I would not have to create a fantasy.

Yeah, I'd totally be into being bi. Or straight, that'd be cool too (I'm just gay). People call me self-hating or whatever, but the simple truth is life would be much simpler and easier if I were straight. I'm fine with being gay, but liking women is a pretty important part of being a man in this society.

 

[Singularity]

Yeah, I'd totally be into being bi. Or straight, that'd be cool too (I'm just gay). People call me self-hating or whatever, but the simple truth is life would be much simpler and easier if I were straight. I'm fine with being gay, but liking women is a pretty important part of being a man in this society.

It's not just that, if closeted straight guys can live out their bi-side and get away with it calling it a phase, job or what-have-you it sort of undermines a gay man's sexuality and role in society.

 

[tomhrdhat]

I agree with the above. I would had preferred being straight. Because of my voice, mannerisms and appearance, people I meet always assume I'm straight so it's awkward (I'm age 49 and a lot of guys from my generation don't have any gay friends) That said, I have less social equity and lost many friends and family members along the way. On the other hand, it's given me much more insight and compassion for others that also face adversity. Professionally, I work for a great organization that fights poverty in America and would probably had landed in the private sector had it not been for my early experiences with bigotry.

 

[JC2008]

With the straight guy trying to be intimate with a gay guy, don't forget not all relationships are sexual or based on sexuality. Google emotionally dependant relationships and that should explain it.

 

[Nickt11]

Stupid question?!

 

[athletemike11]

Honestly yes. I'm straight, and in college. And it just seems like it would be so easy to get a blowjob or fuck whenever I wanted lol. It's just science guys are generally hornier than girls, so yea I would give a pretty big Yes that I have thought about it, but I'm just attracted to girls. I've always been curious who is better in bed guys or girls but I don't know if I'll ever find that out lol.

 

[ibill1]

Yeah, I'd totally be into being bi. Or straight, that'd be cool too (I'm just gay). People call me self-hating or whatever, but the simple truth is life would be much simpler and easier if I were straight. I'm fine with being gay, but liking women is a pretty important part of being a man in this society.

I'm not sure where this comes from. I've been 100% gay my whole life. I was with my guy for 35 yrs since we were 17 until his passing. We lived in the same house for over 33 yrs. in a conservative community and we never had any issues. I have been out at work and in the community for 35+ yrs. and I've never been treated wrong that could be attributed to us being husbands.

I am positive my life was not any more difficult than my straight buddies and I am sure they would agree. Granted I'm a kind of a big burly masculine type guy and few would probably mess with me, but it never came up, and maybe thats why, I don't know. Maybe I'm just lucky. My life was very simple with him. We were so attuned to each other and spent all of our free time together that the years just passed by as we remained totally captivated with each other. It never stopped since the night we met and fell in love at first sight.

It pains me sometimes to hear younger guys say their life would be easier if they were straight because it seems they may be unhappy and that saddens me greatly.

 

[Bastard25]

If I were straight I think my life would be a lot more easier too. I wouldn't feel the need to blend in with society. Most straight guys assume Im straight because of the way I look or act, and the fact we share common interest. In all honesty though, it makes me uncomfortable once we become friends and they don't know my sexuality. I am not ashamed or anything, because I like the way I am. I just don't understand why I feel like I have to go out of my way to announce my sexuality ALL THE TIME to people who assume I'm straight. Not all of us gay men wear our sexuality on our sleeve. Even when women hit on me, I feel like I have to go along with it, because the minute I admit that I'm gay, everything changes, even though I have no interest in sleeping with them whatsoever. Even at work it just seems easier to go along with the playing the "straight guy" role, rather than being the "gay guy"...

 

[clicker]

You just need someone sadly that someone is not me. unless you, ya know... you want me to be that someone

Daniel, your pic is gorgeous...love the sweater. Is that really you?

 

[evanrick]

I wish I were 'gayer'. I'm 97% straight, 3% gay. It would be nice to shift that to say 90/10% but it's not going to happen.

well, it need not be 10% to have a good time...

 

[Singularity]

I wonder what the 3% contain.

 

[Lokithetrue]

Yeah, sometimes I do. But mostly because women fucking suck, and I'd probably get laid more often than once every couple of years.

 

[whatdidyousay]

Yeah, sometimes I do. But mostly because women fucking suck, and I'd probably get laid more often than once every couple of years.

A. You're hanging with the wrong damn women. Women rock. Hard.

B. Dude, this is just...sad.

 

[chrisgreer]

100% gay and would not change that fact for anything. i have no problems being gay, but the rest of the world seems to have a problem with it. Fuck em...

 

[Kabluey]

Have been getting the itch over the last year or so to act on my curiosities I guess, plus guys are more likeable I think.
Nice guys are anyway.