Straight man fantasizing about wife's ex-partner

[TriBi]

^ Well - they are both at least "curious" - and this forum is titled "Bisexual and Straight Guys".

 

[shawn0098]

I understand that this is a "gay" website. but there is a bi/straight forum on the site, and it's totally acceptable for this kind of post. if you don't like it, don't read. go read the strickly gay stuff. and get off this guys back. It's so irritating when guys like you make stupid comments like that.

 

[Candyapple]

Garroavery, you certainly didn't bore me! I found your story very interesting (and well-written). I'm a woman so I can't relate directly, but I do love fantasising about watching my husband with another woman, or a man (the second one definitely isn't possible, sadly). And one of my ex-bf's used to get me off by telling me everything he'd done with his ex-gf's in bed.

 

[synch]

Sounds pretty cool. Something I have done with an ex girlfriend...sorta, lol.

 

[TheTrish]

Hi, garry! Me and my boyfriend often talk about me getting banged by his poker buddies or him being "raped" at the lesbian bar where I sometimes go. Multiple partners is a HOT fantasy! hehe

T

 

[bobthehoon]

I agree with you guys. I love my girlfriend to be with other guys. I am bi and I love this site and hate it when people get all bi-phobic! I think if you are gonna read stuff in the "bisexual and straight guys" section you should probably expect that they might find women attractive as well!

Would love to hear more about this subject, just got into the lifestyle myself (my gf is screwing a guy right now!! ) and if anyone wants to chat then pm me!

 

[TheTrish]

Thanks to all who have replied...I feel a lot better knowing that there are others out there who share the same fantasy. In re-reading my rather long post, I failed to mention a few things...

I sometimes ask my wife during sex to describe her ex's penis in detail. Interestingly, she rarely gets too explicit, only talking about when he sat up in bed during their first encounter and how it was "sticking straight up" (which I mentioned in my initial post) and that she could see it was visibly pulsating. She also comments how surprised she was that he could last so long and "go all night" without losing that erection. This talent of his seemed to last during their entire relationship.

I also ask her if she remembers his penis being bigger than mine and she says that it was. The cutest thing about it is that she almost sounds like she YHmisses his penis, but doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Since my penis is rather small, I wasn't surpised to hear that his was larger. In fact, it does turn me on knowing that my wife was able to enjoy a large penis before she met me.

Hi, Av! Do not get hung up on size, I prefer the average 6 inches or a little less as long as it is stiff and hard and always ready! hehe LOL

A big cock is like a statue in a museum, it's nice to look at but not to take home.

T

 

[bobthehoon]

I kinda agree with Trish on this, I always was obseessed with my gf having bigger cocks than mine but I was concentrating on length. My gf is crazy for the cock of a guy she is screwing who's cock is massivly thick. I think it's me thats into long cocks!

The thing that she loves about his cock is the way he can screw her again straight away after cumming, he is a proper 'Alpha Male'! It took me ages to persuade her that I like the fact she enjoys sex with him more than me! Now she can't get enough of him, and telling me how good he is!!

I don't know if it is a bi thing or what but it seems to go against the very nature of being a man to have these feelings but I can't help it! I do know that when I have had experiences with guys or when I fantasise about them I am always the sub one and get pounded by them, not me pounding a gay guy. And teh type of guy that turns me on is always muscular and powerful, so maybe thats what it's all about? I dunno but I love it!!

Oh, by the way I'm pretty sure we're known as cuckolds but the name freaks me out a bit!

 

[wilecoyote]

Although I am not bi, I too experienced the excitement of fantasizing about my boyfriend's ex, and one night he desrcibed in great detail a few of their sexual romps and he knew it was turning me on to hear these things, including that he too had a bigger dick than me - why I found that so hot, not sure LoL. As he was still on a friendly basis with his ex-boyfriend, we decided to live out the fantasy and all three of us got naked one night and luckily it turned out to be a hot time that we repeated a few times since. The only downside was the hot fantasy in my head became less intense once I experienced it and watched them doing what my BF had told me they had done, if that makes sense.

 

[bobthehoon]

my girlfriend is taking this to a whole new level now which is awesome. She keeps telling me how much she wants him, moaning his name when we have sex and just basically making sure I know how hard he makes her cum!!

garro -do you think there is any chance that your wife might have sex with this guy again? amaybe they can film tehmselves and you can get off on watching a real man fuck her!

wile -makes a lot of sense. I'm not sure if I'm ready to experience her having sex in front of me yet, although probably because being bi it would be a bit wiered for the straight guy! I really want a video or at least a pic but he wont let her do it which is gutting as i really wanna see htat big cock in action (or at least see a pic of it!). I'm glad to hear gay guys have this fantasy as well! Is it common amongst gay couples or is it mainly staright(ish!) couoples?

 

[wilecoyote]

wile -makes a lot of sense. I'm not sure if I'm ready to experience her having sex in front of me yet, although probably because being bi it would be a bit wiered for the straight guy! I really want a video or at least a pic but he wont let her do it which is gutting as i really wanna see htat big cock in action (or at least see a pic of it!). I'm glad to hear gay guys have this fantasy as well! Is it common amongst gay couples or is it mainly staright(ish!) couoples?

I did see pics of my bf having sex with his ex before we ever had the 3way and I think that helped the transition from fantasy to reality. Having the ideas in my head visible in pics not only gave me some j/o material, but intensified my turn-on. The jealousy factor also played a role in getting me excited/jealous but by the time we all hung out I was secure enough in my relationship to not feel jealous except in that good hard way. We were all open and discussed things about what we would do, if I wanted to watch or particpate, etc. way beforehand. It's obviously much easier for me as a gay guy to bluntly tell his ex I found the pics of his cock and ass hot, then it would be for you to tell a straight guy in terms of a reaction - at most I might've got a decline. I should say the guy was very surprised that I wanted to do this but we became friends (not best buds but friends) by my candid-ness. I used the positions I saw in the pics as a starting point saying "I'd really like to see ..." and no problemo.

Now my bf also has a much older Bi-fuckbud he occasionally sees and I get off on the stories of what they do. Sounds like your gf has a similar situation to drive you crazy with horniness. Does the other guy know she has a Bf (you)? Maybe he'll let her take a pic in action as long as his face isn't seen. My bf's ex didn't want his face in pics, so I just saw my Bf's face sucking the dick or sitting on it etc. Maybe the guy will go for a BJ pic? If you decide you want to see your gf in action, the guy might find it hot to fuck your gf in front of you. Don't some straight guys like that so long as you don't try to suck his dick too LoL.


I don't know if it's common with gay couples as I can only speak for myself. I've known other gay couples that do play around together, but don't necessarily get off watching their partner do stuff.

 

[D-Base]

Maybe you should ask yourself what do you want to do to a guy when he gets naked LOL. Is only the thought of his presence turning you on or you want to fuck him or get fucked by him or you want to suck him. Those are questions you have to answer yourself.

 

[fun4one]

Sounds hot. 3-ways are fun.