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Straight, married male neighbor. Flirting or being friendly?

Paulll92

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Hello guys, I have a question maybe you guys can give me your insight on.

I'm 31, my married, next door neighbor is 66. He's a hairy Italian guy who I always have been attracted to. He is presumably straight, always seems to be flirting with women and is a father and grandfather. Certain things he has said to me have struck not only myself but others I tell of flirtinf vs just being friendly and I'm wondering what you guys think.

- Made a joke one time when we were both cutting our lawns that I'm the goood looking guy, and he's the old guy.

- One time I was out cutting the lawn and trimming edges and I was on my hands and knees. He made a remark about how nice and hard I'm working on my knees.

- He was dressed up as the Easter bunny and I made a joke to him about where my candy was. He asked if I've been a good boy or a bad boy and only if I was a good boy would I get some. I later messaged him on messenger joking to say I've been a good boy and he sent me " good boy😎" as response.

- Another time he asked me to help him move an irrigation machine off his truck. When I went over he told me I smelt really good, but didn't bother to ask what cologne I was wearing, I then told him.


These things lead me to believe he's semi-flirting but then I'm also just not sure if it's someone being friendly. What do you guys think? I know it's difficult to say not knowing him, etc but how would you take all this?

Thank you all for any insight you have!❤️💕
 
I think he might just being friendly , it's ambiguous to get insight into this situation , you'd have to be blunt and straightforward and dare to ask him if he ever dared to get it on with you
 
Sounds like he's just a friendly neighbor but you never know he could be also flirting with you too just keep an eye and don't make anything weird unless he say something to you
 
I think he might just being friendly , it's ambiguous to get insight into this situation , you'd have to be blunt and straightforward and dare to ask him if he ever dared to get it on with you
Thank you Franki. I agree with you, it's so ambiguous that it's throwing me off lol. :)
Sounds like he's just a friendly neighbor but you never know he could be also flirting with you too just keep an eye and don't make anything weird unless he say something to you
Thank you Musicman. You're right, I'll keep low and just observe what he says and how he acts. Definitely don't want to make it weird. :-)
He could also be trying to get you to sleep with his wife 🫠
Thank you JohnJohn. You really think so? I'm not opposed to it if he's going to bed me as well. Would much rather sleep with him. But interesting you brihg that up, it never even entered my mind.
 
One thing i learned about flirty straight guys is you have to be quick on your feet to flirt back.

When he said how nice and hard your working on your knees. i would have replied back i love working on nice and hard things.
 
Thank you Franki. I agree with you, it's so ambiguous that it's throwing me off lol. :)

Thank you Musicman. You're right, I'll keep low and just observe what he says and how he acts. Definitely don't want to make it weird. :)

Thank you JohnJohn. You really think so? I'm not opposed to it if he's going to bed me as well. Would much rather sleep with him. But interesting you brihg that up, it never even entered my mind.
Yeah, like my wife and I will engage in threesomes. But I also like to watch while someone has sex with her too.

So it could be a kink of his for sure.

Have you engaged at all with the wife on any level like you have with him? Or interacted with them together?
 
One thing i learned about flirty straight guys is you have to be quick on your feet to flirt back.

When he said how nice and hard your working on your knees. i would have replied back i love working on nice and hard things.
I almost did. I was ready to say, I do lots of things on my knees but chickened out. 😢. You're right, I should have been quick. :)
Yeah, like my wife and I will engage in threesomes. But I also like to watch while someone has sex with her too.

So it could be a kink of his for sure.

Have you engaged at all with the wife on any level like you have with him? Or interacted with them together?
That's pretty hot tbh! Oh I have. I've known them both my whole life. They've always been my next door neighbors. :)


Thank you both for the insight!! I appreciate it! :) :)
 
I almost did. I was ready to say, I do lots of things on my knees but chickened out. 😢. You're right, I should have been quick. :)

That's pretty hot tbh! Oh I have. I've known them both my whole life. They've always been my next door neighbors. :)


Thank you both for the insight!! I appreciate it! :) :)
At this point you might as well invite them both over for dinner and drinks, then joke about playing strip poker haha
 
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