Straight obsession with anal?

[Gomaki]

I guess this is sort of an obvious thing for gay men, but I know a few straight guys who have an obsession with anal sex. Like they get really excited when they have the possibility of having it with a girl, and are really into porn when the girl gets it up the ass.

I guess for gay men, anal is basically the only option for intercourse. But I'm curious about straight guys. So to anyone who might know guys like this (or are one), what do you think is the big deal about anal for straight guys?

 

[bulge]

They're obsessed with anal several ways.

First they suffer from extreme penetration compulsion so badly they project it on gay sex while most gay sex is mutual masturbation which gays consider full sex while str8s are unable to conceive any sex without penetration.

Secondly they are especially obsessed with their own anus (pussy, cunt are better words) and think they have to build up all kinds of psychological hymens in their own ass.

Thirdly they are obsessed with girls' anus as everyone knows.

Fourth, str8s have to ressort to female tits to fill their nostalgia for male ass.

 

[rhino2]

Hi there, i'm a straight who obsesses with anal and just loves to try anal and cant watch enough of it. But also love to watch gay porn and fantasise about it, I might be bi but i,ve had one gay encounter but couldnt go that extra step at the time. I think those that are really obessed are closet gays but we can only guess until we catch them out.....and have some fun

 

[EJMichaels]

. . . while most gay sex is mutual masturbation which gays consider full sex. . .

Is this true? Not the "full sex" part (which makes sense), but the "most gay sex" part. I mean, do we have statistics or anything? It's a serious question. I fear I might be one of the offenders, although I am neither straight nor male.

 

[Krakenbwool]

Straight men want anal with women to fulfill subconscious misogynistic compulsions because it apparently "degrades" women. It would mean that they have "invaded" every hole and that more often than not, women don't get any pleasure from it and often even get hurt. Looking at it from that angle, it's no wonder that straight people look down on gay sex--they consider it demeaning (to the "receiver").

Not to mention that a lot of gay men don't even have anal intercourse.

 

[bulge]

Is this true? Not the "full sex" part (which makes sense), but the "most gay sex" part. I mean, do we have statistics or anything? It's a serious question. I fear I might be one of the offenders, although I am neither straight nor male.

Since AIDS there are only statistics about gay anal ignoring oral or mutual masturbation, but it is evident mutual masturbation far outranges all other sexual practices in the gay scene.


http://www.avert.org/gay-sex.htm

 

[EJMichaels]

Since AIDS there are only statistics about gay anal ignoring oral or mutual masturbation, but it is evident mutual masturbation far outranges all other sexual practices in the gay scene.


http://www.avert.org/gay-sex.htm

Thanks!
I guess this means I shouldn't use porn to learn about the sex practices of the group portrayed, but it worked so well for women.

 

[Telstra]

some str8 guys like putting dildo in their ass, don't know why.

 

[Telstra]

I've also heard, from a very reliable video, that a lot of gay men also "eat da poo poo". I was shocked to learn this.

i don't know. so far i won't lick any anus no matter how clean ...

 

[clicker]

In straight porn, anal is about degrading, domination and humiliation, which says alot about straight males and females. For gay sex, anal is the only penetrative option,and the imbalance of male/female isn't there: both males are equal.

 

[Gomaki]

Hmmm... I think you guys may be right about the degradation thing. I would have to say most people my age learn about sex acts through porn, and I can only assume they will associate these acts with the nature they are portrayed.

I guess if anal sex in straight porn is depicted as nasty, degrading, and misogynistic, then straight men who are enjoying it enjoy getting "dirty" and controlling in the bedroom.

I think it says a lot of about the true influence of the pornography industry. It shows men how to treat women and shows women how they should react. Both of which aren't necessarily positive. Does anyone else think that is sort of morally outrageous?

 

[sktguy]

Wow, I am amazed at all the wrong answers and untrue statements there are in this thread. I almost don't know where to begin.

I. I've spoken with many straigh guys..friends and casual acguaintances about anal sex and they've all said they like it because it feels good. That's all. Never once did any of them say anything about degrading women. I don't doubt there are some guys who feel that way about it but they're the minority who more then likely have problems with women.

2. Most gay sex is not mutual masterbation. In the many and I mean that as in the hundreds of gay sex encounters I've had I can count the ones that were only masterbating on one hand.

3. If anything men resort, as you put it, to titys because of mother complex's. Not because of butt feelings.

4. Few staright men are obsessed with their own buttholes. They like vaginas. Not imaginary ones in butts. The real ones.

5. While not all gay men have anal intercourse, the ones who don't are a very small minority. Once again speaking from personal experience and what other men have told me.

6. Very few gay men are in eating sh$t. I've never met a single person who does. A friend knew of one guy and generally most people I've talked to know no one who's done it.

7. Mutual mastyurbation does not in any way outnumber other gay sex practices. First would be oral, then anal then MM.

8. You should absolutely not use porn as a reliable source on sex, gay or straight.

9. I've also watched a whole lot of straight porn. In very many of them when anal is done I've never seen it done as a form of degredation. It's just done as sex and in many the woman is loving it. There are straight porn videos aimed at degredation and humiliation but that's a specific market that is being addressed in those videos.

10. People sure do have alot of misconceptions and wrong information about sex in all it's different forms.

 

[Nomenclature]

Not to mention that a lot of gay men don't even have anal intercourse.

Most of the long-term couples i've spoken to have said that they rarely have anal sex, but that they engage in oral, frottage and mutual masturbation on just about a daily basis.

If the relationship consists of two strict tops or bottoms, they won't do anal at all. . .but if one or both of them are versatile, they'll have anal sex "on special occasions".

 

[sktguy]

Most of the long-term couples i've spoken to have said that they rarely have anal sex, but that they engage in oral, frottage and mutual masturbation on just about a daily basis.

If the relationship consists of two strict tops or bottoms, they won't do anal at all. . .but if one or both of them are versatile, they'll have anal sex "on special occasions".

I was in two long relationships..one six years, one eight years and we fucked like bunnies all the way through. I also have friends who've told me that though the sex slowed down if that's what they did at the beginning they still do it. As for the other situation I was in an ongoing thing with two guys that were long term partners and both tops. They would find themselves a bottom like me and both go at it with him. There was alot of loving, kissing and caring between the two. It was just or the part of it they used me which was fine by me.

 

[bulge]

Wow, I am amazed at all the wrong answers and untrue statements there are in this thread. I almost don't know where to begin.

I. I've spoken with many straigh guys..friends and casual acguaintances about anal sex and they've all said they like it because it feels good. That's all. Never once did any of them say anything about degrading women. I don't doubt there are some guys who feel that way about it but they're the minority who more then likely have problems with women.

2. Most gay sex is not mutual masterbation. In the many and I mean that as in the hundreds of gay sex encounters I've had I can count the ones that were only masterbating on one hand.

3. If anything men resort, as you put it, to titys because of mother complex's. Not because of butt feelings.

4. Few staright men are obsessed with their own buttholes. They like vaginas. Not imaginary ones in butts. The real ones.

5. While not all gay men have anal intercourse, the ones who don't are a very small minority. Once again speaking from personal experience and what other men have told me.

6. Very few gay men are in eating sh. I've never met a single person who does. A friend knew of one guy and generally most people I've talked to know no one who's done it.

7. Mutual mastyurbation does not in any way outnumber other gay sex practices. First would be oral, then anal then MM.

8. You should absolutely not use porn as a reliable source on sex, gay or straight.

9. I've also watched a whole lot of straight porn. In very many of them when anal is done I've never seen it done as a form of degredation. It's just done as sex and in many the woman is loving it. There are straight porn videos aimed at degredation and humiliation but that's a specific market that is being addressed in those videos.

10. People sure do have alot of misconceptions and wrong information about sex in all it's different forms.

2) Most gay sex is mutual masturbation.

3) A man is naturally homosexual and becomes heterosexual only after a long societal training. In nature animals clearly are far more gay.

4) Str8 men are totally obsessed with their butt holes. They even think they have to defend them as bastions.

5) Very small minorities of gay men have anal sex. Penetration compulsion is a typically str8 problem, so bad they even think they must project their str8 penetration compulsion on gay men.

7) Mutual masturbation outnumbers all other M2M sex far before oral.

 

[sktguy]

I'm wondering where you came up with your ideas. I know mine are from my own personal experiences and the lifestyle in which I live...friends, groups etc., that I have accumulated this information from.

2. I've already said this is untreu so I won't go into why again.

3. This just shows you're an idiot. Nobody ever changes sexuality. They can repress their sexuality but it will always be there so if a gay man goes for the hetero life he's still a gay man inside. And check the science books gonzo. There are many studies and reports that show that here are many speies that have gay sex. Crack a book dude.

4, 5, 7..wrong, wrong and wrong. You may think that but you're talking out your ass which I have a feeling you're obsessed with though few straight men are. You're just a major fountain of misinformation and screwed up ideas.

 

[iwantbig]

Straight men want anal with women to fulfill subconscious misogynistic compulsions because it apparently "degrades" women. It would mean that they have "invaded" every hole and that more often than not, women don't get any pleasure from it and often even get hurt. Looking at it from that angle, it's no wonder that straight people look down on gay sex--they consider it demeaning (to the "receiver").

Not to mention that a lot of gay men don't even have anal intercourse.

are you fair dinkum ? who told you that women don't get any pleasure from anal? every woman that i have fucked in the ass couldn't get enough of it and couldn't ask for more quick enough ! I believe that they also like it because its extra naughty as well and is just one more step when they have done every thing else . maybe some of you arent doing it right, like fucking them hard enough ! I'm just stunned fucked and amazed at some of this stuff ! i've had women that suck my cock , impale their ass on it untill i've cum and suck me clean after ward with out a word of suggestion from me so work that out ! maybe they saw it on a movie and wanted to live it out ! Fuck knows .
Fucking an ass and fucking a vagina are two different things , ive never fucked a woman in the ass to degrade her , i do it because its awesome from my side and it makes them go off like its out of fasion and they allways want to do it again . Ive only ever had one girl that couldn't relax enough to enjoy anal . far out ive got to take a breath , Are there really gay men who don't have sex ? why not? i don't get it , but thats just my thoughts -- I'm Bi , I like pussy, tits , girls asses and mens cocks . Im not attracted to men except for their cock so clasify me if you can! I like just about anything being done to my ass and i love a cock down my throat and i've long since given up trying to understand why so i just make the most of it all.

 

[iwantbig]

By the way -- I'm not saying there ar'nt fuck heads out there who are into degrading other people sexualy etc but some of these posts are stating things that are complete bullshit so i'll just say one thing -- You only know what you know in your self , any thing you read that may be some one elses opinion may only be what they want you to think they believe and how they want you to think they are .
who the fuck comes out with words like " Masogonistic " ( don't bother to tell me i didn't spell it right i'm not trying to ) how about the world just lets every body get on with doing what feels good to each other ( get that -- to each other ) in other words dont fuck some one in the ass if they dont want you to , for fucks sake we've got the internet so find someone that wants to be fucked in the ass and there will be two more happier people on the planet , fuck , I give up.

 

[lambdaboy]

I have to disagree with most here.

The majority of straight women do not enjoy, do not want and or won't let a guy fuck her in the ass.

The majority of str9 porn always has at least one scene of anal.

Str8 guys ask girls girls say know. We all want what we can not have and to be fair to str8 guys they want to see what its like.

I have been fucked by three very str8 guys. Two of the three no way would let me sucvk them off but wanted to try anal so bad it took nothing to get them.

Surprisingly all three went slow used lube and gave me 3 of the best fucks I evr had.

One thing I nevr understand is str8 guys always going wild to see two woment go at it. Whats that about

 

[AlmondMilk]

One thing I nevr understand is str8 guys always going wild to see two woment go at it. Whats that about

Maybe it would be like girls going wild seeing two guys go at it? I saw it happen once but it was pretty much in an area where you didn't really have to hide your sexuality lol