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Straight or Bisexual?
I have had very enjoyable sex with straight guys, its all about enjoyment. European men think nothing of having sex with men wheater gay, bi,or straight, they just enjoy the moment, feel Americans are too hung up on gender when it cxomes to sexual fun.
 
ffwd, I totally agree with you,..........BUT surely you jest about the bleach?

Does it make your cum white?

lol
 
Fiorino said:
I have had very enjoyable sex with straight guys, its all about enjoyment. European men think nothing of having sex with men wheater gay, bi,or straight, they just enjoy the moment, feel Americans are too hung up on gender when it cxomes to sexual fun.
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way to stereotype european AND american men. :rolleyes:
 
You guys missed the irony. Here he is telling us that guys who have sex with guys and girls should *not* call themselves 'straight', when the OP says he enjoys having sex with guys and not women and yet he fills in 'bisexual' under his name.

Hypocrite!
 
star-warrior said:
You guys missed the irony. Here he is telling us that guys who have sex with guys and girls should *not* call themselves 'straight', when the OP says he enjoys having sex with guys and not women and yet he fills in 'bisexual' under his name.

Hypocrite!
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I'm sure you saw where this was going when the title was read.

:D
 
To me, the entire "gay, bi, str8" labeling process is a crock of shit, but whatever label a person chooses to use for themselves is their own preference for how they prefer to portray themselves in the general public, regardless of their actual behavior behind closed doors...

For myself, I see the label as involving a degree of emotional attachment. IE, I can see someone that labels themselves as str8 dropping their pants and getting a blowjob from another man when they are horny, drunk, or both. However, I don't think that the person that labels himself as str8 would ever be emotionally attached to another man, just as a str8 woman might, in the heat of the moment, allow another woman to bring her sexual pleasure. The opposite is also true...I don't see a man that labels himself as gay ever being emotionally attached to another woman...I am bisexual, so I use that label to mean that I enjoy sex with both men and women, and I can and am emotionally attached to both men and women...

I think that many people label themselves based on their sexual preference...which does not mean that they would not have sex with anyone else, but that they prefer either a man or a woman. I've always thought that it was a more clearly defined label if you were answering a question such as "would you prefer to have a long-term, emotional relationship with a man, woman, or either?" than to view the labels in strictly sexual terms...
 
Since the Romans came up with their Res Non Verba Dictum, the world has become a much better place.

You are not necessarily, who you think you are.

You are not, who you wish you are.

You really are what you do, as in, how you behave.

So, if you experimented couple of times in HS or in college with other dudes, no one would really seriously label you 'gay', if you then swung the other way and dropped your little experiments for good.

It is however, simply odd, to say in the very least, to start discussing the very basic nature of labeling here in terms of its function within the system of verbal communication.

See, I agree, the humans are very complex. I am a very complex European and American. I am also a very complex Caucasian. I very much admire Asians and their very complex, ancient cultures. I still do not wish to be called an Asian. Because, I am not an Asian. Let me know, if you want it more complex, please?

The humanity has been using oral languages that operate by attaching labels to absolutely everything they wish to express for millions of years. The basic laws of labelling functions have not changed in eons of time. And trust me, neither of us will live that long as to see them change.

You may see a certain stigma attached to being 'gay' and obviously, nothing and no one will ever stop you from trying to avoid being called 'gay'. It really doesn't matter. You are the measure of all the things in your little universe, so please, enjoy the ride.

SC
 
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