cuteguyincali
Slut
Ok so here it goes,
Often times in straight Long term relationships the females are never in the mood for sex. It's always the males chasing after pussy and the ladies more often than not are never in the mood. excuses are: too tired, headaches, whatever. You can see this topic all over reddit and just about all over the internet. I personally have experienced this. and it sucks ass.
My question is, (and just to clarify I have had bi experiences just not relationships) do bottom bi/gay males act this way in long term relationships? Are bottom men just as "never in the mood" as females? I consider myself bisexual bottom but I was only involved with a man as a booty call. We never dated, hung out or spent the night. So I cannot relate here BUT I would like to think of myself as an "Always in the mood" because when he called me to fuck, I was ready to go and get dicked down. I never said no.
So back to my story I really don't like to fuck if she's not in the mood because I don't want to have sex like Im using her and I told her this. If that was the case I would of stayed single and would of done this with women I did not care about. Nothing feels worse than to sex someone that's not into it. So in a fit of frustration I told her, "ok guess what, Im going to buy myself a toy so that I won't bother you again when you're not in the mood". And thats in addition to my bisexual toys, all I have are dildos and double sided
strap-ons for my anal play. I bought myself a fleshlight. (AutumnFalls...OMG YES!!! LOL) she thought I was joking but I hit the buy button on my phone in front of her.
For the past week she's been making comments like she's a little bothered by it. But like I told her that I am a very sexual individual. Im 45 and my libido is through the roof. Obviously I don't want to bother her with sex everyday but our romps are a little infrequent. Like we could go two weeks without and when I'm in the mood she acts like im bothering her. Now it has not gone too long because an argument ensues and she gives in. But I really hate those speed bumps. I have been sat down and asked her if there is anything missing in the bedroom to let me know and we could work on it. I mean if it's me if Im not doing something she wants then I told her to communicate. But she says no there isn't anything.
I got my fleshlight today. and if she's not willing to give me my needs then the toy is going to fill that need. I mean I have heard and read about women using toys to fulfill their needs. We wen can too.
So again, gay/bi bottoms, are you like most women, never in the mood, and gay/bi tops have you experienced this with your bottom? And straight men, what's your experience?
P.S. this is not that deep yet. I communicate with her to prevent this from turning into a sexless marriage. But these speed bumps are annoying. (this post was also posted in another forum, just in case you run across this)
Often times in straight Long term relationships the females are never in the mood for sex. It's always the males chasing after pussy and the ladies more often than not are never in the mood. excuses are: too tired, headaches, whatever. You can see this topic all over reddit and just about all over the internet. I personally have experienced this. and it sucks ass.
My question is, (and just to clarify I have had bi experiences just not relationships) do bottom bi/gay males act this way in long term relationships? Are bottom men just as "never in the mood" as females? I consider myself bisexual bottom but I was only involved with a man as a booty call. We never dated, hung out or spent the night. So I cannot relate here BUT I would like to think of myself as an "Always in the mood" because when he called me to fuck, I was ready to go and get dicked down. I never said no.
So back to my story I really don't like to fuck if she's not in the mood because I don't want to have sex like Im using her and I told her this. If that was the case I would of stayed single and would of done this with women I did not care about. Nothing feels worse than to sex someone that's not into it. So in a fit of frustration I told her, "ok guess what, Im going to buy myself a toy so that I won't bother you again when you're not in the mood". And thats in addition to my bisexual toys, all I have are dildos and double sided
strap-ons for my anal play. I bought myself a fleshlight. (AutumnFalls...OMG YES!!! LOL) she thought I was joking but I hit the buy button on my phone in front of her.
For the past week she's been making comments like she's a little bothered by it. But like I told her that I am a very sexual individual. Im 45 and my libido is through the roof. Obviously I don't want to bother her with sex everyday but our romps are a little infrequent. Like we could go two weeks without and when I'm in the mood she acts like im bothering her. Now it has not gone too long because an argument ensues and she gives in. But I really hate those speed bumps. I have been sat down and asked her if there is anything missing in the bedroom to let me know and we could work on it. I mean if it's me if Im not doing something she wants then I told her to communicate. But she says no there isn't anything.
I got my fleshlight today. and if she's not willing to give me my needs then the toy is going to fill that need. I mean I have heard and read about women using toys to fulfill their needs. We wen can too.
So again, gay/bi bottoms, are you like most women, never in the mood, and gay/bi tops have you experienced this with your bottom? And straight men, what's your experience?
P.S. this is not that deep yet. I communicate with her to prevent this from turning into a sexless marriage. But these speed bumps are annoying. (this post was also posted in another forum, just in case you run across this)