Strip Clubs!

[ZonerTC]

So I'm coming home from a strip club, and a friend asks me something:

"Did it do anything for you?"

ME: "Nope! Not one thing, I thought the girl who sat with me was really nice."

"You know, you should drop the Bi act."

ME: "Huh? I would never get aroused from a strip club, no matter my sexuality."

"Sure, sure... keep saying that."


...............

This is a conversation beween me and a friend, she's been a friend for ages, But she truly feels that I can't be bi, as I don't seem as sexually attracted to girls as I am to guys. I give the usual explanations and all that, and she 'understands' but, I know its just her logic is out of wack.

Anyways, my real question is this: It is OK if a bisexual guy is just not aroused (I mean at all, I was watching the sports TV instead of the stripper) at all in an all-girl strip club? I just can't see myself being at all interested in a girl waving her whoo-ha-ha in my face, when there are 20+ other people around me.

Bleeaaraargh!!!

 

[ejbonk]

So I'm coming home from a strip club, and a friend asks me something:

"Did it do anything for you?"

ME: "Nope! Not one thing, I thought the girl who sat with me was really nice."

"You know, you should drop the Bi act."

ME: "Huh? I would never get aroused from a strip club, no matter my sexuality."

"Sure, sure... keep saying that."

hmmm,I would say your friend is convinced your gay. So,Let her think that,She will anyway. It may blow her mind years later when you marry a women. But,oh well. Such is life.


...............

This is a conversation beween me and a friend, she's been a friend for ages, But she truly feels that I can't be bi, as I don't seem as sexually attracted to girls as I am to guys. I give the usual explanations and all that, and she 'understands' but, I know its just her logic is out of wack.

Anyways, my real question is this: It is OK if a bisexual guy is just not aroused (I mean at all, I was watching the sports TV instead of the stripper) at all in an all-girl strip club? I just can't see myself being at all interested in a girl waving her whoo-ha-ha in my face, when there are 20+ other people around me.

Bleeaaraargh!!!

Hey, Do not sweat it. Your attracted to what your attracted to. Nothing more nothing less. Also your turned off,by what turns you off. End of story. Everyone is different. So be it.

I would say your a nice,Intelligent,and Sensitive Guy,and will make some woman a great husband and,if your lucky a great husband for some guy too.

Cheers.

 

[Tizinsane]

It's hard for some people to understand bisexuality. That's probably why I haven't told many people i'm Bi.

Hell, I really hate labels.

 

[Tizinsane]

btw- im not turned on by strip clubs either. Men or women...i'm just not into that stuff.

 

[Frafilippolippi]

strip clubs are creepy...

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I identify myself as completely gay (after enjoying my 10 year bi stint to the fullest).

I am into guys, very big time. No doubt.

Gay strippers and go-go boys do absolutely nothing for me. Nada, zero, nil...

Outside that environment/role, I find the same dudes highly attractive and desirable.

So, don't even start thinking along the lines of 'is it OK to...'.

Everything you feel/do not feel that involves consenting adults and causes no harm to anyone is OK.

SC

 

[bluealternative]

strip clubs are creepy...

I agree, all strip joints creep me out, no matter how posh they may be... especially knowing they want me to spend lap-dance or VIP time draining my wallet.

 

[Romantico]

A similar thing happened to me recently. I was out with a straight friend of mine. We went to the mall, did some shopping, and got a bite to eat. When we first got to the mall we saw this hot girl. She was flirting with one of us but not sure who. We saw her again about a half an hour later. This went on the entire time we were at the mall. This girl was following us. Well, we finally found out it was me she was following and she joined us while we were having some lunch. She was beautiful and I was really flattered. She was also VERY aggressive. When we were alone my friend kept saying to me I should hook up with her. The truth of the matter is, now that I have a girlfriend no one does it for me. No guy or girl. I may think they are hot or attractive but I just have no interest when it comes to anything close to sex. The girl would not take a hint and I finally had to be a jerk and tell her to fuck off, I was taken. I HATE doing that but I had exhausted all avenues of approach. I was more pissed at my friend though because he could not understand why I didn't take her number or arrange to have a quickie with her. He then said he assumed thats what us bisexuals do. I ignored what he said but he then kept on about how I was a disgrace to all bisexuals and at one point said I should be stripped of all my bisexual privileges for not hooking up with her. Its these ignorant stereotypes and myths that get to me. I let him have it and had to become a jerk for a second time and vent. He appoligized and I believe he was sincere in doing so.

For everyone its different, but strippers never did it for me. You should have a sit down with this girl and give her a short course in bisexual-101. Start here and good luck!

http://www.justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=123991

 

[TaigaStar]

Your friend doesn't understand. When you think about it, is "slutty" really something you find arousing? Turn the question back on her- ask her if she would be turned on by some guy waving his wang up and down in her face.