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Suprise Time With a "Straight" Guy

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More likely than not, he wants some repeat action. Hey, you did it once, he cannot see any reason, why wouldn't you do it again?

Being shy does not really help. Get your act together and spill your beans by taking some action one way or the other.

Talk is cheap. Remember that.

SC
 
Somehow I get the feeling he wants me to do something, but im so shy! What should I do?

I think you have a pretty good idea of what he wants.

The question for you is whether you want to continue down this path.

A 19 year old should be exploring their sexuality. But usually, that exploration involves two people exploring together. Not one person getting another person off with no return of the favor.

Your energy would probably be better spent dating and finding someone who is interested in you for something other than an occasional blowjob.
 
but i didn't just give him a blowjob, we had sex, and i played the top,

This is one of those generation difference things. In my generation, oral sex was sex. What you called "doing" or "sex", we called "fucking". :-)

Well, this latest piece of information is a little different. If you're saying that you fucked him and he bottomed, then I suspect he's gay. There are few straight guys who will take it up the ass but they are greatly outnumbered by the gay guys who do.

Well, you won't know where this was a drunken hookup or a fuckbuddy thing until you talk to him about it. If you can't talk about it, well- then that's probably a sign, too.
 
Shy? You had sex with him. You can't get much more intimate than that. You owe it to him and to yourself to speak to him. Ask him out for a drink, pizza, whatever, talk. See where you go from there. Best of luck
 
You're not too shy to stick your dick in him, but you're too shy to talk to him? Dude, let me put this as clearly as I can. You fucked him in the ass. I'm pretty sure he likes you. Go talk to him.

Lex
 
Could you clarify this a little... I'm still not following where you're going with this.

Come, Orion. Sit on my lap and I'll clarify.
 
62Junebug said:
I dont know though... a friend of his said there was a rumor going on that he might have fooled around before, but just rumors. like, he wanted me to screw him, knowing that i've never done anything with another dude before. I know what you mean though, but i didn't just give him a blowjob, we had sex, and i played the top, which completely suprised me. Could there be more to this?
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Possibly so. If you are into him, and, if he is into you, a lot might be in store for both of you. (No pun intended.)

I see little good in 'the great debate: gay or not?' at this stage. You want to keep enjoying the experience and once you are both comfortable to talk about it, I am sure, you will.

Little good will come out of pushing for the 'talk part' prematurely. Many guys in their late teens and early 20's enjoy the pleasurea of discrete m2m sex. This does not go on to say that they ought to open a debate on the subject, come out to the rest of the world, buy a house and move in together.

SC
 
What gets me is you were straight your whole life and you met this one guy and you had sex with him.. What about the high school locker room that never did anything for you?
 
Karabulut:
Well, you won't know where this was a drunken hookup or a fuckbuddy thing until you talk to him about it. If you can't talk about it, well- then that's probably a sign, too.

62Junebug:
The Thing is that i think that were both closet cases. Like i feel that he wants to say something, and so do i, but were both to nervous. Its starting to choke me up. What should i do or say? - obviously he doesn't know im typing this.

You say, "Can we talk about the other night? What was that?"

Or if you are too shy, show him your original post.

As I said before, if you can't be honest and open with each other, then the possibilities of the future are limited.
 
buy a freckin' six pack and go have a "talk"----
 
drink a little or smoke up or somethin to make it easier to bring up. he obviously wants something to happen again or he wouldn't keep hanging out with you alone, you both must just be too shy to bring it up without the aid of alcohol. aid or no aid just take a deep breath and say "did you have fun the other night? it was new to me but i'd be down for repeating ;)"
 
here's a suggestion:

If you're too afraid to make the first move and he is too...why don't you grab some drinks on the way over the next time. People tend to be a lot braver when they're a little drunker. Hahaha.

If nobody makes a move... pop in a gay porn! Things will start to heat up VERY FAST.

Then when the mission is accomplished and hopefully both are not drunk-dead, then you can take the opportunities and talk a bit about what happens next.

Since you're both new at this, take things slowly. Don't rush into things, don't assume sexuality labeling until you actually start a relationship. As far as things go right now, you're both very bi-curious...hehehe, or still very curious.
 
Sounds like you need alcohol as a crutch to bring on your motivation. But being a minor, I don't advocate your drinking habits. I recommend just being soberly honest with what you want with him.

He bottomed for you. There's more going on than to worry about any fears of being rejected.
 
FUCK WITH HIM AGAIN.

Do you like him? Tell him so. Do you want to do other things with him (like a movie/meal/walk in the park)? Tell him so.

If all you want from him is his cock in your mouth and his ass around your dick, DON'T tell him so. THAT, he'll figure out.
 
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