Talking About Guys with My Boyfriend

[altlover85]

My boyfriend and I basically talk about hot guys together every day, and there aren't any jealous feelings or anything. We're not in an open relationship, and neither of us would ever cheat, but we recognize that we're both attracted to guys and therefore can fantasize about them together. Does anyone else do this?

Yes, I do that with my boyfriend as well. I find it fun and interesting to see what kinds of guys he likes.

 

[shyguywpg]

My boyfriend and I point out other hot guys all the time and we have been together for 8 yrs. We are in a relationship, but not blind or dead......its foolish to think that neither of us would find anyone else attractive.

 

[saymyname]

I think that is pretty healthy and a sign of trust. I did that with my ex, we were somewhat open, but it never bothered us. We'd never say anything like "he's so much hotter than you" or anything like that, but it's unrealistic to act like you don't notice other guys.

 

[racer2438]

Yes we do that all the time, we point out guys we see while, walking driving and so on. We sometimes play the does he hang to the L/R, cut/uncut, but just as a game for us to have chit chat.

we would not act on them , being our 26+yrs together it's fun to have some fun too.

 

[chance1]

hmmm

not sure about "every day" but we do it a lot

and i probably do it more than him

my bf told me that his prior bf was super jealous and wouldn't stand for any convo about other's hotness

i'm totally ok with it

especially at the gym

def healthy

and fun

 

[Seasoned]

Yes. It can be fun and hot. Role play can be cool, too, but try not to burn off an eyebrow as I once did.

 

[KaraBulut]

As long as everyone is grazing with their eyes from afar, it's fine.

It's only a problem when your partner is compared to strangers in an unfavorable way. Or if you can't follow the "look but don't touch" rule.

 

[man1lover]

where's the fun in that? have a three-way or something