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Talking to someone you met while at a bar

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So this past weekend I went out to my first gay bars experience in a city about an hour from where I live and well met a guy we fooled around for while like made out but we didnt do much more than that cause I was a little to straight forward about my intentions...(was very drunk) well we exchanged numbers so I texting him the next day saying that it was cool to meet him blah blah anyway I didn't get a reply till a day later basically saying hope you had good time I'm sure ill run into you again take care. I waited a couple hours to reply saying I'm not sure when but ill make it happen since it was fun, I haven't gotten a reply back and now its been more than a day and I was wondering if I should text him something else, I'm quite interested in but I'm not sure about him at this point.
 
If you plan on going to the bar again, you may text that day to say you'll be there. If he replies and/or shows up...great, if not...well, you have your answer.

What were your intentions? Seems you scared him off. Perhaps not wise to drink to much and reveal too much. Get to know the guy first before springing all your "intentions" on him.
 
I wanted to have sex and honestly think that's what happened I did apologize for it in the last text anyway not sure when it'll be the next time I can go may be months from now that's why I would like to keep in touch.
 
oh...turned you down for sex. How unusual. I don't think that is out of line in a gay bar. I was thinking you may have scared him off by with the intentions of wanting a relationship.

You've made the effort to contact him and you apologized (which I don't think was even necessary, but whatever...), nothing more you really should do now without coming across as appearing desperate and pushy. It's up to him to contact you now.
 
This all new to me so I didn't know what to expect I may have said something else but idk it's a blur with the drunkenness lol

Thanks for the input cause I don't really want to come across like that kinda sucks though.
 
Next time - with anyone - drink less and just get to know the guy first. Even if it's just "rocks off" it will make the experience better. And could lead to more.

High is okay; slobbering is not.
 
Also what's so confusing is that before he left he kept giving me the sweetest kisses and we shared pizza all that weird relationship stuff
 
I wouldn't even try to guess what he is thinking. Instead..text him and if he does not respond he is probably not interested for whatever reason. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong. I would suggest if it doesn't work out as you were hoping to go back and meet someone else (a little more sober would be wise).
 
palbert said:
Next time - with anyone - drink less and just get to know the guy first. Even if it's just "rocks off" it will make the experience better. And could lead to more.

High is okay; slobbering is not.
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I agree. Drinking less, especially when you're meeting someone for the first time is a good idea. If you're headed to the club/bar without someone else with you, I would keep the drinks to two to three at the most, depending on your tolerance. You want to be aware of your surroundings and be in control not just because you want to make a good impression on a guy, but also because you want to stay safe.
 
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