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Hi guys/other dads,
My two twin sons are turning 12 this month and I don't know if they know what masturbation is or how to do it! I know I need to talk to them about it asap but am nervous and just wanted some advice on how eg. a video of how to or a physical demonstration? Is that weird? I just want them to be prepared for their changing bodies and not be shy or uneducated about anything that's natural..
 
yeah that's actually extremely weird.

You don't need to talk to them about it. They aren't stupid. Kids are more connected to external sources of information than ever before. Chances are, they're way ahead of you.

And the idea of a demonstration is beyond inappropriate.

Let teens be teens and explore.
 
Your kids are 12, and you're trying to feed them porn, or worse, jack off in front of them.

People go to jail for things like this, and rightfully so.

As stated, teens explore. It's not for you to rush them along.
 
If they are 12 they certainly have heard about it and more than likely already know how to do it pretty well...
 
At that age we had books about this in health class. Do they not cover it at school?
 
At age 12, kids are much more sexually aware than parents realize. There's no need to "teach" them anything. What you can do is let them know that they can ask you anything or talk to you about anything. If you catch them looking at porn or masturbating, don't make a big deal of it or make them feel guilty about it.

However, if this is a serious thread, it is important to say that it would be incredibly inappropriate for you to participate in any sexual activity or physical contact under the guise of "teaching". If you want to teach them anything, teach them to respect women and that responsibility comes with sexual activity- and that responsibility includes using condoms.

And if they have not gotten immunized for HPV, it's time.
 
I agree. There would be a fine line between teaching and participation/abuse. If any one hears about it, it is likely to be misunderstood, and if you tell kids not to tell anyone it sounds worse. If you are gay, you will not get the benefit of the doubt. Just don't do it.
 
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