spiralgary
Slut
Thanks to everyone who had the time to read my first entry, it means a lot to me, and makes me feel like a hundred dollars!.
Well my vacations are almost over and I had a lot of time to think about my relationship with my best friend (if i can still call him that).
here is the background story:
We met about 9 years ago, but we started to get really close about 4 years later.
We did everything together and we considered each other best friends. Everything was nice but i had a little problem ,I didnt liked his girlfriend.
(This is not another case of " I'm in love with my best friend", I just didnt liked her.)
She was very stupid, extremely prepy, superficial, and I just didnt had anything in common with her. I decided that it didn't concerned me and I just ignored her. 5 years passed and he finally broke up with her because he was cheating.
He never told me he was cheating on her, even when I asked him.
after he broke up with her , he started a new relationship with his other fling and invited her to my birthday.
she got extremelly drunk and started screaming to my friends. I got really mad at him and we stopped talking for about 3 months.
Later, when everything was calmer, I decided to talk to him and solve the problem.
apparently the problem was solved, but I sensed that there was something wrong with him. I asked him, and he said that he would tell me later.
2 months passed and i got nothing.
Last week I called him because I missed him, and i wanted to hang out, so we went to a party.
I was having a lot of fun talking, drinking and for the first time in a long long time I was being social!. but when I came back to him he was angry and bored.
I asked him if there was something wrong and he said that he was tired, so we decided to go home.
I came home that night and about an hour later I got a message that said " Im sorry , theres too much happening , i need to talk to you".
I replied to him but he never wrote me back and when i called him he told me that he was going on vaction with some new friends and he was not comming back until next saturday, which is today.
I dont understand him!, I'm really mad at him for spoiling every good moment that I have and when I try to talk to him he wouldn't let me in!. i don't know whats going on!
I don't think i made something wrong, I offered him my help..but he refused! and i don't want to give up on him because he is my friend.
hope everything makes sense to you, because for me is a riddle.
if there is something you dont understan please tell me.
Well my vacations are almost over and I had a lot of time to think about my relationship with my best friend (if i can still call him that).
here is the background story:
We met about 9 years ago, but we started to get really close about 4 years later.
We did everything together and we considered each other best friends. Everything was nice but i had a little problem ,I didnt liked his girlfriend.
(This is not another case of " I'm in love with my best friend", I just didnt liked her.)
She was very stupid, extremely prepy, superficial, and I just didnt had anything in common with her. I decided that it didn't concerned me and I just ignored her. 5 years passed and he finally broke up with her because he was cheating.
He never told me he was cheating on her, even when I asked him.
after he broke up with her , he started a new relationship with his other fling and invited her to my birthday.
she got extremelly drunk and started screaming to my friends. I got really mad at him and we stopped talking for about 3 months.
Later, when everything was calmer, I decided to talk to him and solve the problem.
apparently the problem was solved, but I sensed that there was something wrong with him. I asked him, and he said that he would tell me later.
2 months passed and i got nothing.
Last week I called him because I missed him, and i wanted to hang out, so we went to a party.
I was having a lot of fun talking, drinking and for the first time in a long long time I was being social!. but when I came back to him he was angry and bored.
I asked him if there was something wrong and he said that he was tired, so we decided to go home.
I came home that night and about an hour later I got a message that said " Im sorry , theres too much happening , i need to talk to you".
I replied to him but he never wrote me back and when i called him he told me that he was going on vaction with some new friends and he was not comming back until next saturday, which is today.
I dont understand him!, I'm really mad at him for spoiling every good moment that I have and when I try to talk to him he wouldn't let me in!. i don't know whats going on!
I don't think i made something wrong, I offered him my help..but he refused! and i don't want to give up on him because he is my friend.
hope everything makes sense to you, because for me is a riddle.
if there is something you dont understan please tell me.