that one straight guy...

[twinky89]

There's this guy that I eat lunch with sometimes and I would really like to tell him how I feel about him, but he's straight.

I heard his friend talking to him about one time that he had oral sex with a guy that he thought was a chick. Also there was this one time when we were sitting on his couch and he touched me with his foot.

I already came out to him and he's ok with it.

It's just that every time I try to tell him I chicken out. I was close to telling him one time, but the words just wouldn't come out. I think it's because I'm afraid of what he's going to say. I never felt this way about anyone else before.

I don't know if I should just blurt it out. It worked that way when i told him I'm bi.

 

[backpacker]

He knows you are bi. If he was interested in you in a sexual way, I'm sure he would have picked up on the signals you are sending out. I recommend that you move on and focus your energy on guys who are available.

If you feel like you must take a shoot with this guy, then just ask him if he is 100% straight. The probability that he will take the bait is very low. Keep in mind that you may weird him out and it could hurt the friendship. Good luck!

 

[VICTORIADON]

^

I agree with backpacker. Totally.

 

[G-Lexington]

Welcome to JUB!

>>>I think it's because I'm afraid of what he's going to say.

Well, yeah. He's straight - he told you so. Even when you said you were bisexual, he didn't respond in kind. So believe him - he's straight. So what do you honestly hope him to say? "Really? You like me? Well, I'm straight, but maybe I'll let you suck me off once or twice"? Honestly, it appears you're lusting after the moon. This guy is straight, so he's not interested in you physically.

Lex

 

[homemadehuman]

how on earth can you be so wise?,i don't have much time around the forums,but you always give the best advices.

 

[xrph1670]

Lex is right. It sucks, but he's right.

I have just fallen again for a straight guy I'd been away from and not given a lot of thought to over the past couple of months. Today, he messaged me and said "hi." And that's all it took. It sucks.

Lex is right. Let it go.

 

[D-Base]

Those friggin teaser

 

[twinky89]

I have an update on this guy in a new thread because I couldn't find this thread before I posted it. It's called "Supposedly straight guy... again" and it's in the straight & bi forum.

 

[AlmondMilk]

Eh, I kind of got a crush on a guy I hung out with a few months ago. Things that we just met and we only hang out. He's straight... though it would've been cool to mess around with him, he gives great company. I don't know, I guess we're just remaining as friends which is fine with me XD

Anyway the guy touched you with his foot? As in a slight nudge? Like he was laying on the couch and accidentally tapped your leg when he was bringing his legs up? Or like he's moving his foot around your body like scanning your body? lol

 

[KaraBulut]

The update over in the other forum can be found here.

 

[twinky89]

Anyway the guy touched you with his foot? As in a slight nudge? Like he was laying on the couch and accidentally tapped your leg when he was bringing his legs up? Or like he's moving his foot around your body like scanning your body? lol

basically, we were playing footsies. but only for a few sconds.