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I guess this isn't a major problem compared to other people's, but I am feeling rather uncomfortable because of it.
There are a couple of women where I work that are perpetually flirting with me. At first I took it as a joke, all jovial and everything, but now it's becoming very annoying!
They keep talking about turning me, and rubbing themselves up against me. Short of causing a massive argument, I don't know what to do!
 
That's sexual harassment. If you want to be a hard ass, report it to HR.

Have you told them to stop?
 
If it makes you uncomfortable you definitely need to tell them to stop.

Sexual harassment policies usually include this as a first step.

Document the date and time you told them in case you need to take this further.
 
Just tell them they're wasting their time and to stop rubbing their tits and vaginas up against you. Ask them what they'd think if some guy they found totally unappealing to them rubbed his hard-on against them.
 
Hello Sweetie,

The other guys are right. The first thing you should do is start keeping evidence. Make a note of who said or did what, when it happened and who else was present. Make sure the notes are contemporaneous and kept up to date.

Next, you do need to give these women the chance to back off. Tell them how their behaviour makes you feel, remind them that sexual harassment is unlawful and say that you’re giving them a last, informal, opportunity to stop.

If that doesn't work, go to your boss and/or your company HR department, tell them what's happening, show them your evidence, remind them that they have a duty of care towards you and ask them to take action under the company's conduct and discipline procedures.

Hopefully, that'll do the trick. Otherwise you may have to threaten your company with resignation followed by a constructive dismissal action. You would need to talk that through with a lawyer first though.

Good luck! :kiss:
 
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