The Mechanic at Work

[rareboy]

You're probably creeping him out. If you were so obvious when you were checking him out, you probably have made him uncomfortable.

You're there to work. Not bust equipment so you can find your balls to say hello to someone. If you brought down production in my business, I'd fire you. Right there.

Nothing prevents you from saying 'Hi, How's it going?' when you see him.

But if he's looking right through you, then I'd take the hint.

 

[Flexuality]

I agree, sounds like unwanted sexual attention. Just be friendly and wait for him to show interest. Otherwise it's harassment.

 

[TX-Beau]

No, don't sit around waiting for him to "take interest," he could have already, and he didn't.

He probably won't want to be your friend if he knows you've been perving on him and he isn't interested.

Plus it kinda sounds like you've been following him around the warehouse. Stop that.

Plus, as said above, making him uncomfortable through sexual attention is sexual harassment.

Plus, do you really see this as going anywhere but your head, then your obsession, then your coming in here and posting about it? Don't think so.

Plus, what is so attractive about an uninterested straight guy old enough to be your father?

Control your damn self, stop obsessing, go find a guy who wants your attention. You're in L.A. I used to live there, I know you have a ton of other outlets to find a guy.

 

[sd1989]

Yeah leave him be, if he likes you he'll come to you.

 

[irudesan]

Hmmm, from the description you gave, it seems he is just straight, and that means... well, that there is almost no chance of anything sexual with him.

If you really want to talk with him then just do it, say hi, i know its very hard, once i was in a similar situation, i never truly confirmed if the guy was gay or not, but at least i got to talk to him about random stuff occasionally. Eventually itll be easier to you to move on once you talk to him, and the things he would talk may give you more clues wether he is or not gay. Or wether he has family, kids, and everything. There are always hot men around, but not all are gay or available. We often tend to fantasize about the persons we would want to be gay. Its like we trick ourselves.

Bye

 

[rareboy]

I guess I just sound desperate on here, but at work, I hustle my butt, and when I get that chance around the mechanic, I make sure I don't look like some kind of crazy haha.

Yeah. You sound desperate. But glad to know you're not creepy and that it was all actually a joke. haha

 

[KaraBulut]

I guess I just sound desperate on here, but at work, I hustle my butt, and when I get that chance around the mechanic, I make sure I don't look like some kind of crazy haha.

You don't sound crazy. You just sound like a horny young guy with a crush... who needs a boyfriend.

 

[rareboy]

There's a difference between being shy and being tongue tied.

You can't always wait for the entire world to speak first.

I guess 'go ahead' is as good a start as any.

Why not try Hi! next time? Or, How are you today?

But seriously, from what you've described so far, I think you're obsessing way too much about his guy. What you see as heart stopping interaction just loaded with sexual possibilities comes off as a random ordinary moment at work.

 

[Croynan]

drop the matter and concentrate on your job. you are there to work and not look for a sex mate.

eM

 

[trawler69]

You had to stop to avoid crushing your crush . Relax, breathe and don't take it too seriously. Just enjoy the scenery cause sounds like you are never going to own it.