The real me

[Gemini72]

Hey guys. I’m still pretty new here and have posted some stuff but I’d like to share whom a how I really am. I tend to embellish a bit on these sites as it’s just fun sometimes to talk a little shit, lol. But really, I’m just a regular hard working blue collar married guy with a very healthy sexual appetite. I’m very open minded and adventurous. I love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. I don’t think I could have feelings for men the way I can for women though. It’s a purely physical thing, all about the sex. I don’t get into kissing, just sucking and fucking. Who knows though as I’ve never given it a try or met the right guy it could be possible. Regardless, I find the male and female bodies to be beautiful. Sex is sex and is beautiful and special be it straight, gay or bi. I’ve only engaged in mutual oral with a man. I endeavor to experience giving and receiving anal. I’ve been into pegging and solo Dildo play for many years and absolutely love the fullness and stretching feeling. I figure if a Dildo feels so good the real thing back there must be amazing. Anyway, just thought I’d share my honest thoughts and feelings with y’all. This is the real me.

 

[LionLeoRay]

Hey @Gemini72 - thanks for sharing! You pretty much described exactly how I feel!! I've just started dipping my toes into this world, and like you, (married, love women, can't live without them), I'm very sexually attracted to men! Just wanna experience what sex with men is like, and how their bodies feel. Haven't done anything with another man before....maybe 2023 will be the year!!

 

[Gemini72]

Hey Lion. Thanks for responding. Talking with others alike is fun and very therapeutic. Good luck and god speed in your exploration. It is a fascinating and erotic world. Part of the reason it’s so fun is that it’s so taboo and unacceptable to some although it is getting better. I haven’t done much, just sucked and been sucked. It was amazing.

 

[butterfinger]

Hey guys. I’m still pretty new here and have posted some stuff but I’d like to share whom a how I really am. I tend to embellish a bit on these sites as it’s just fun sometimes to talk a little shit, lol. But really, I’m just a regular hard working blue collar married guy with a very healthy sexual appetite. I’m very open minded and adventurous. I love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. I don’t think I could have feelings for men the way I can for women though. It’s a purely physical thing, all about the sex. I don’t get into kissing, just sucking and fucking. Who knows though as I’ve never given it a try or met the right guy it could be possible. Regardless, I find the male and female bodies to be beautiful. Sex is sex and is beautiful and special be it straight, gay or bi. I’ve only engaged in mutual oral with a man. I endeavor to experience giving and receiving anal. I’ve been into pegging and solo dildo play for many years and absolutely love the fullness and stretching feeling. I figure if a dildo feels so good the real thing back there must be amazing. Anyway, just thought I’d share my honest thoughts and feelings with y’all. This is the real me.

I definitely relate to this

 

[butterfinger]

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I’d like minded dudes got together somewhere just to chill. Would we be embarrassed in person? Or would we be able to really get into it? Makes me wonder.

 

[LionLeoRay]

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I’d like minded dudes got together somewhere just to chill. Would we be embarrassed in person? Or would we be able to really get into it? Makes me wonder.

I'm wondering the same thing. I, personally, wouldn't be embarrassed because I would feel all of us would be on the same page - i actually made a post about something similar but there were no takers LOL - I'm hoping because not a lot of readers are in the GTA, and not because it was a bad idea LOL. But who knows, maybe there are groups like out there already, I just don't know how to find them.

 

[butterfinger]

I'm wondering the same thing. I, personally, wouldn't be embarrassed because I would feel all of us would be on the same page - i actually made a post about something similar but there were no takers LOL - I'm hoping because not a lot of readers are in the GTA, and not because it was a bad idea LOL. But who knows, maybe there are groups like out there already, I just don't know how to find them.

That would definitely be cool. I imagine like some kind of group of buddies that just looks like they get together for breakfast or shoot guns, ride motorcycles, RC driving/racing or whatever kind of hobby…and then spend the night at someone’s house playing video games and giving each other blow jobs, hand jobs and ALLL the gay sex

 

[LionLeoRay]

That would definitely be cool. I imagine like some kind of group of buddies that just looks like they get together for breakfast or shoot guns, ride motorcycles, RC driving/racing or whatever kind of hobby…and then spend the night at someone’s house playing video games and giving each other blow jobs, hand jobs and ALLL the gay sex

That kinda sounds like a PERFECT day! LOL!!

I've heard of things like circle jerks and "bro-jobs" but part of me thinks they're urban legends LOL. I have a lot guy friends and have done many "guy trips" and NOT ONCE did the idea of circle jerks or bro-jobs come up. Do they actually happen LOL??

 

[butterfinger]

That kinda sounds like a PERFECT day! LOL!!

I've heard of things like circle jerks and "bro-jobs" but part of me thinks they're urban legends LOL. I have a lot guy friends and have done many "guy trips" and NOT ONCE did the idea of circle jerks or bro-jobs come up. Do they actually happen LOL??

Lmao i don’t imagine anyone would bring that up randomly. It would definitely have to be a group who already know what’s up. I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s a thing tho. Kinda jealous actually.

 

[Nude_Dude]

I don’t think I could have feelings for men the way I can for women though. It’s a purely physical thing, all about the sex. I don’t get into kissing, just sucking and fucking.

I KNOW many will disagree with me, but this is the pattern of one I would describe as "heterosexual" who likes "gay-style sex"
I meet many a man who'll drop by BJ - even a few who love topping me - but I don't class ANY of them as bisexual
Let/s face it - what straight guy knocks back a blowjob, if it's all kept in confidence.
I believe sexuality is more complex than who you like to stick our dick in to.
I'd say bisexuality as having sex partner as one you could fall in love with,
share emotions with - and build a home and life together, regardless of gender

I've only known just the ONE guy like that, as I'd term "bisexual"

 

[LionLeoRay]

I KNOW many will disagree with me, but this is the pattern of one I would describe as "heterosexual" who likes "gay-style sex"
I meet many a man who'll drop by BJ - even a few who love topping me - but I don't class ANY of them as bisexual
Let/s face it - what straight guy knocks back a blowjob, if it's all kept in confidence.
I believe sexuality is more complex than who you like to stick our dick in to.
I'd say bisexuality as having sex partner as one you could fall in love with,
share emotions with - and build a home and life together, regardless of gender

I've only known just the ONE guy like that, as I'd term "bisexual"

I think you're right, @Australian_Nude_Dude - I hesitate to call myself "bisexual" because I know I don't want a "romantic" relationship with a man. Friendship, sure, as in Friend with Benefits, but can't see myself "building a home and life together" with a man, as you put it.

But yeah, I would say I'm "heterosexual" who likes "gay-style sex" (or, at least, is wanting to try it - since I've never done it, not sure I DO like it, but VERY willing to try LOL!)

 

[Gemini72]

Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I’d like minded dudes got together somewhere just to chill. Would we be embarrassed in person? Or would we be able to really get into it? Makes me wonder.

I wonder that myself. I’d like to get together with some like minded guys and play. I’ll admit as it’s been so long since I’ve played that it might be a little unnerving. We’d just have to stay open minded, loosen up and concentrate on having fun.

 

[Gemini72]

I KNOW many will disagree with me, but this is the pattern of one I would describe as "heterosexual" who likes "gay-style sex"
I meet many a man who'll drop by BJ - even a few who love topping me - but I don't class ANY of them as bisexual
Let/s face it - what straight guy knocks back a blowjob, if it's all kept in confidence.
I believe sexuality is more complex than who you like to stick our dick in to.
I'd say bisexuality as having sex partner as one you could fall in love with,
share emotions with - and build a home and life together, regardless of gender

I've only known just the ONE guy like that, as I'd term "bisexual"

I agree. I’ve researched bisexuality and read that to be truly bisexual one has to be capable of having feelings for and or falling in love with both sexes equally. That is definitely not the case with me. The emotional aspect is reserved solely Dow women. I just like Vicks and man asses and how the sex feels. I do prefer him to be good looking and in shape though, lol. As I think I said in my post, I like to just consider myself very open minded and sexually adventurous.