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The SOUL crushing devastation of Rejection

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please do not misunderstand. I KNOW I am not so "special" that I should never experience adversity. Of course I'm not. But I'm a major Weakling when it comes to dealing with it.

Another rejection could set me back another 20 years of hiding away, shunning society and hating life and the world in general

Hell, at my age, 20 years might see all my problems solved. THAT'LL be the day. a GOOD day
 
realistically, it could take 25 or 30 years. people in my family have always had remarkable longevity.
so meanwhile, I need something other than sex and love to occupy my mind and soul. time to hang it all up, and move onto whatever other folks have found to have meaning and some sort of validation in their lives. thanks for reading. I should have put this a in a blog. cheers
 
Hi I know how you feel.
if you don't mind me asking did something recently happen?
 
Have you considered working with a therapist? A simple rejection shouldn't set someone back 20 years, unless you are (subconsciously) recalling a major rejection when you were between 2-5 years old. Perhaps you see it as simple rejection, while it is conceivable that it is depression.
 
I literally love when I get rejected. It means I know I don’t need to waste anymore time on that person and can move on to someone else that actually wants me.

Since I’ve picked up this attitude I’ve had the most fantastic sex with the hottest guys in my life.

When I get rejected I know I’m closer to having hot sex with a hot guy, and that’s always how it works out. If you got rejected that means you at least put your intentions out there. Keep doing that and someone will want you back. :)

I’m so confident now that when I approach someone it’s usually either a quick match or a quick rejection. Either is cool with me, either they vibe with my style and intentions or not, no harm either way but then I know who to go and not to go who’s gonna want me so it’s a win all around.
 
This NOT what you said in your original post.

"please do not misunderstand. I KNOW I am not so "special" that I should never experience adversity. Of course I'm not. But I'm a major Weakling when it comes to dealing with it.'
If you were truly resilient, ti wouldn't take years to recover. You story seems contradictory and more akin to someone who says "Oh, I didn't qant them anyway."
Inconsistent story, it seems.
 
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