the worst date I've ever had...

[sureaaa]

It was not even a date!
I thought it would be a fun dinner but it turned out to be so disappointing...

I talked to this guy on yahoo and facebook for quite a while so we scheduled a meeting-up for a dinner. He was short of money so I said it was ok and I could pay the bills.

Then, he picked me up at my home and we went to the restaurant. The whole nite I did almost all the talking and tried to come up with topics. ( It's kind of demanding for me, I'm not a native speaker and have just been here for 1 year). The only topic he proposed was " is ur food good?". He was showing sleepiness all the time and yawning from time to time.

If we are not into each other, that's fine. But why not have a fun dinner together just for now? He doesn‘t even bother to do that... It was so awkward when there was only silence left.

I met quite a few guys here and I've never had such experiences!! I even paid for this unpleasantness.

Thx for reading my complaints...much better now....

 

[onetwothreefour]

Sorry. I wanted to point out that sometimes people can appear to be rude when they aren't. I have OCD/Tourette's and I will yawn a lot in public as a substitute for my vocal tics. And my meds can make wreak havoc with causing me to be tired at times, even sometimes paradoxically when I am anxious. But I don't know if this was the case. But if you are too anxious to tell someone why you are the way you are, they can sometimes assume you're being rude when you aren't intending to. I had that issue with my relatives at Christmas (me assuming they thought I was rude based on my behaviors that were too complicated in my mind to explain). Anyhow . . .

 

[Telstra]

It was not even a date!
I thought it would be a fun dinner but it turned out to be so disappointing...

I talked to this guy on yahoo and facebook for quite a while so we scheduled a meeting-up for a dinner. He was short of money so I said it was ok and I could pay the bills.

Then, he picked me up at my home and we went to the restaurant. The whole nite I did almost all the talking and tried to come up with topics. ( It's kind of demanding for me, I'm not a native speaker and have just been here for 1 year). The only topic he proposed was " is ur food good?". He was showing sleepiness all the time and yawning from time to time.

If we are not into each other, that's fine. But why not have a fun dinner together just for now? He doesn‘t even bother to do that... It was so awkward when there was only silence left.

I met quite a few guys here and I've never had such experiences!! I even paid for this unpleasantness.

Thx for reading my complaints...much better now....

lol you are so funny.

 

[benners]

Sorry you had such an unpleasant evening--and that you had to pick up the tab.

BUT it really sounds like it was more awkward or uncomfortable than unpleasant. I mean, maybe he's shy? I know when I was dating I sometimes found it intimidating to come up with topics for conversation--I thought that I'd sound unintelligent or say something that would put my date off.

You never know. He might be on another online forum gushing about the amazing date he had where he was scared to speak.

Just my thoughts. I think first dates are notoriously train wrecks and aren't always 100% indicative of what someone is like.

 

[arpeggi]

I had a similar experience and had no plans of seeing the guy again. Well, he asked me out again and he ended up being really funny and cute in a nerdy sort of way. I even liked him enough to date him for three months... then see him again over winter break.

However, it's always the awkward and slightly nerdy men I end up dating for extended periods of time. They tend to be rather clingy too, in my experience.

The really hot guys I like right away never amount to much.

 

[sureaaa]

Sorry you had such an unpleasant evening--and that you had to pick up the tab.

BUT it really sounds like it was more awkward or uncomfortable than unpleasant. I mean, maybe he's shy? I know when I was dating I sometimes found it intimidating to come up with topics for conversation--I thought that I'd sound unintelligent or say something that would put my date off.

You never know. He might be on another online forum gushing about the amazing date he had where he was scared to speak.

Just my thoughts. I think first dates are notoriously train wrecks and aren't always 100% indicative of what someone is like.

I see your point. lol
But actually I can tell the difference between shyness and indecent manners. I met a shy guy before and I felt comfortable to talk to him even he didn't talk too much. After that, he texted me to apologize his shyness, which he didn't have to do.

 

[HunterM]

Learn from this experience. The next time...skip dinner and go right to sex!

 

[sureaaa]

Learn from this experience. The next time...skip dinner and go right to sex!

It's a bit better that he falls asleep when having dinner with me than that he falls asleep when having sex with me...lol

 

[Telstra]

It's a bit better that he falls asleep when having dinner with me than that he falls asleep when having sex with me...lol

I think go straight to sex is better then dating.
Dating is for girls meet guys and not guys meet guys.

 

[Mellored]

It was a blind date my sister set up for me with a fabulous guy she worked with. Despite the fact that most of our conversation centred on his experiences in prison, and the shocking amount of beer he consumed throughout the evening, I invited him back to mine for a coffee. (What can I say, cropped black hair and blue eyes)
Waiting for a Taxi outside the club he had what I later discovered was a blackout caused by his body producing too much insulin. As he fell in a heap to the floor, muttering something about sugar and cola, I tried to break his fall and ended up with his entire weight on top of me, (something I hadn't planned on till much later).
A cab driver phoned for an ambulance and with the help of the small crowd that had gathered around us I managed to get my new friend into a sitting position. A woman in the crowd had a chocolate bar in her handbag and she started forcing it into his mouth, it seemed to be helping him back to the real world.
As the ambulance arrived the woman who had been helping us slipped off the pavement onto the road and twisted her ankle. Off she went in agony with our paramedics as we were left to haul ourselves into a taxi. As soon as we got back to my place he lay on my bed because he had migraine and he fell immediately to sleep. I sat beside the bed for most of that night just watching him, convinced he would slip into a coma or worse.
I did see him again and we had some great times, but our first date was the most unforgettable.

 

[Conundrum]

I had encountered two situations before:-

1. Meeting & making out with a guy, jerked him and the next thing is, he typed and showed me the "you gotta go, i got plenty of work to do" message in his iPhone. It's like he's mute and can't tell me about it.

2. Meeting & making out with another guy, jerked him and then his friend called and he told me that "i think i need to leave now to club, my friends are there". He even asked me if I were to cum fast when he asked me whether I want to be jerked off or not.

Crappy, huh? I was sooooo depressed the few days after that. Not to mentioned that, few days after that; the guy I liked & contacted for a period of time straight away implied that he's no longer interested in me when I told him that "people thinks I'm girly". It felt like the world is crumbling onto me :O

So, I've toughen up...accepting the other side of reality, comforting myself that I don't deserve to be treated like that and yeah, ranting out to someone helps a lot

 

[altlover85]

I did see him again and we had some great times, but our first date was the most unforgettable.

Great story even though it was difficult for you.

 

[Fireballs]

I think go straight to sex is better then dating.
Dating is for girls meet guys and not guys meet guys.

Oh wow, such GREAT advice.