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Think my Best Friend made a move on me but not sure what to think about it.

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So me and my best friend were drinking one night and got a little drunk (I remember everything that night, he says he doesn't). Well, we sat down on my couch, I leaned back, threw my feet on the table and he got on top of me and started making out with me. I went along with it for a moment then asked him what he was doing. He didn't answer and then just laid back and went to sleep. The next day, I asked him if he remembered anything from the night before and he says no. Give me your opinion, Is he gay or was he just too drunk to realize what he was doing. We drink all the time and this was the first time this happened. He wasn't stumbling or anything, just confused and want others opinions. Thanks. Also, we have known each other for 8 years and he as as for as I know only had sex with girls (and I know for a fact he has had sex with some of the girls).
 
Just talk to him, let him know what happened and how you feel about it. People say that alcohol helps others let go of their inhibition, maybe he was just experimenting. IMO, it doesnt sound like he was coming on to you.
 
If anything, he could be bisexual -- if he's been with girls there must be some attraction there.

Could have been thinking about making out with you or a guy for a while now, and with the perfect cocktail, unable to keep his curiosity from manifesting itself... But I doubt he's full-on secretly gay. At least not yet.

Does he know you're gay? Wait... are you gay? You're not gonna freak out and stab him or something right?
 
A lot of people do silly things when they are drunk, then conveniently "forget" the next day using alcohol as an excuse for their behavior. Maybe he's curious, maybe he's closeted, maybe he was just really horny at that moment and he wanted to kiss you. You could spin a truckload of "what was he thinking/what is his sexuality", but ultimately you are just speculating because you haven't talked to him personally.

So, you could just forget about it. You've known him for 8 years and so far this was a one time event. Maybe it really is nothing.

You could also talk to him. Just make sure when you talk to him (if you do) you are honest, open and receptive and make him feel comfortable about the whole conversation. If he is closeted, he may not be ready yet to talk about himself so you'll get a whole lot of denial and embarrassment. Just be sensitive and aware that there may be more going on and the chat could go many ways.
 
He might have been dreaming, I've done this before grabbed hold of whoever was laying next to me to kiss, as far as the memory, too drunk it's possible, next time wake him up when it happens.
 
Of course he made a move on you. That wasn't exactly subtle of him, LOL. There's nothing for you and him to talk about. Go for it!

Hang out with him again, drink, and then start wrestling him in a manly way. Bear hug him from behind and wrestle him down to the bed or floor. In a macho way get on top of him. When your faces are close just look right at him and let nature take its course.
 
I am bi and nobody that I know, knows that. I would like to make another move on him but I don't want to ruin the relationship. I am afraid that he was just too drunk and if I tried something then it would ruin our friendship. I don't think that it is worth losing him as a friend.
 
I think he is just wanting to satisfy his curiosity, it does not need labelling, just go with it, a bit of "male bonding"
 
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