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think my best mate is gay

gruffy

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Well i have been best mates with my friend for ages. He is really really camp and can never keep a girlfriend. Everytime he meets somebody knew they always ask if he is gay. I have always thought that he might be but because he has said on numerous occasions that he isnt but it is becoming more and more regular that people arr asking if he is gay. his friends from childhood are manly guys and i think he may be hiding who he is for their sake. What should i do?
 
You do nothing except keep being a good friend. When he's ready he'll come out if indeed he is gay.
 
It depends. Are you out to him?
 
Do you have a personal motive for wanting him to come out?
 
If you are gay and want him as your boyfriend then ask him,If not then don't say anything, leave it as is just be his friend !
 
If this guy has been asked repeatedly, and always said no, you asking him isn't going to get a different answer.

In fact, either way, bringing it up probably is just going to piss him off.
 
Some straight guys are just very camp. I don't really see why that isn't the case here...
 
Racer Dave said:
You do nothing except keep being a good friend. When he's ready he'll come out if indeed he is gay.
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^QFT

When someone tells us they are gay, we don't argue with them.

Straight people deserve the same respect.

If you are out and you're a good friend, then he will confide in you if something changes. In the meantime, he is what he says he is.
 
Seasoned said:
It depends. Are you out to him?
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Yeah I'm out to him. I just want him to be happy and something is making him very moody. I remember what I was like before I came out and its the same kind of behaviour
 
gruffy said:
Yeah I'm out to him. I just want him to be happy and something is making him very moody. I remember what I was like before I came out and its the same kind of behaviour
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Be there for him. Don't push him to confide in you, but tell him you're all ears with anything that bothers him. That way it's his decision if he wants to talk about whatever he has a problem with. He's an adult, and you laid down the offer. It's his decision now.
 
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