Think way 2 much about situations.

[MartyO]

I am a 19 year old gay guy who wants to get fucked so fucking hard. I do this course at my college and we started a new Sem this week and in the year below me there are these 3 gay guys. 1 that was there last year and 2 that started this week.

1 of the 1's who started this week is young (not to sure what age he is) and the other 1 looks to be much older (i'm guessing between the ages of 25-28)

Anyways....

I havent talked to the older guy but he is hot so i asked one of my friends who is in his class if he is gay he said yes and asked if i fancied him i said not but i find him attractive.

He also said that he was married and to be honest i didnt care at first but now i do.

I also dont know what to say to the older guy if my friend tells him because i've denied to so many boys that i have never fancied them and end up thinking about them too much.

The Situation is, if he is married i dont want to say anything to him but i know myself i wouldnt be able to stop thinking about him but if i do tell him and nothing happens then i will end up driving myself crazy again by thinking to much. But if he is single and i dont tell him but one of the other gay guys gets to him before me and i missed my chance i wouldnt be able to get over it for along time. If he is single and i tell him and he says he's looking for a relationship i wouldnt know how to approch him and ask him. Also i am scared incase he finds out about my track record of being a creepy gay and might try to avoid me which i couldnt cope with. I'm not the ugliest tool in the box but i know i'm not his type but i have never felt this way before about a gay guy.

I havent had gay contact in all my years of being gay but i thought to myself yesterday when i saw him i wouldnt mind a piece of him i get so annoyed thinking about these situations so many times

I would like someone to tell me what is the best way to tell a guy if he is married or single how you feel about him

 

[sixthson]

Just stay away from married guys. Nothing good can come from it.

 

[nfgrls]

yup not cool messing around with the married people, other than that not really sure what you would like to know...

 

[swerve]

Possibly I misunderstood the part where you tell people that you're interested in that you DON'T fancy them???

If I read it correctly...

Ummmmm...

Yeah -- that is a BAD move to make...

Best of luck!!!

 

[rareboy]

O c'mon.

It isn't high school any more.

You have to start taking charge of your own friendships and associations with other guys.

What you're describing here is juvenile predatory obsession. Which is actually a lot more benign than it sounds.

So this incredibly handsome but very aged 28 year old is hot. Is that all?

Do you also look at him and think, gee, he looks like someone I'd like as a friend? You don't have to fuck him to be friends with him.

Talk to him. Find out more about him. If he's married, who knows....maybe they know some other guys you might connect with too. Him being married doesn't mean that he isn't permitted to make friends in school too.

 

[MartyO]

O c'mon.

It isn't high school any more.

You have to start taking charge of your own friendships and associations with other guys.

What you're describing here is juvenile predatory obsession. Which is actually a lot more benign than it sounds.

So this incredibly handsome but very aged 28 year old is hot. Is that all?

Do you also look at him and think, gee, he looks like someone I'd like as a friend? You don't have to fuck him to be friends with him.

Talk to him. Find out more about him. If he's married, who knows....maybe they know some other guys you might connect with too. Him being married doesn't mean that he isn't permitted to make friends in school too.

Nope i look at him and think, gee, he's a guy i would like to explore.

 

[MartyO]

Possibly I misunderstood the part where you tell people that you're interested in that you DON'T fancy them???

If I read it correctly...

Ummmmm...

Yeah -- that is a BAD move to make...

Best of luck!!!

Sorry you read it wrong. I tell other people how i feel about people but when they tell that person how i feel i get really awkward and try to advoid the subject.

 

[MartyO]

yup not cool messing around with the married people, other than that not really sure what you would like to know...

i've seen him a couple of times a checked him and i have a crush on him but i keep my feelings to myself and it makes me think to much about situations that will never happen so i want to tell him that i have a crush on him to not make situations awkward and i dont know what to say.